Advice would be great: I had my dear old (and older) friend at my dentist today say " why would anyone bring a baby into the world the way things are?" when I had to tell them I was pregnant today. Is this what I have to look forward to the next 8months? How do you deal with people who are so negative about having children? I am so happy but I'm naturally nervous and I get that kids are no walk in the park, I'm a frggin teacher, but that comment really upset me...