When my boy was born my husband slept in the room with us. He was leaving the house at 5 and getting home at 8pm, 6-7days a week (baby was 4 months old) but I was breastfeeding so just tried to not wake him. Sometimes I was exhausted and would have to nudge him to settle our boy.

To be honest I would hate if he didn’t sleep beside us, WE chose to have a baby! He always told me we were both working long hours at that time so had to support each other.

Little one was in our room until 8 months

We do this in the early months if we need to. DH works 12 hr shifts so needs his sleep. Plus I breastfeed so he can't get up through the nights to do the feeds (I hate pumping lol

My OH occasionally sleeps in the spare room, mainly because I kick him out due to his snoring 😂 but he also gets up about 5am for work so needs a good ole kip, so will sometimes start off in our bed but if he gets too tired moves rooms. As hard as it is, I think it’s about communication and compromise and finding the right balance for you both . X

Baby is only a month old, he was born 2month early so wakes 2 feed every 2 -3 hrsHe makes little grunts and moaning sounds in his sleep sometimes usually if he has wind. I guess it will be for as long as baby is in the Moses basket and waking frequently 😞

How old is your baby? And how are they a noisy sleeper exactly? Just out of interest. I feel sad for you. I get he wants rested sleep but does he miss sleeping with you? Maybe have a sit down and talk about it. If it's only short term and your finding other ways to be a couple and spend time together then it's not the end of the world. But long term I'd be worried if it was me.