How do y'all do it?????? Boyfriend has fractures and a break in his shoulder, and a broken ulna; as well as a lot of bruising and road rash; so he is in a lot of pain and very e...

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How do y'all do it?????? Boyfriend has fractures and a break in his shoulder, and a broken ulna; as well as a lot of bruising and road rash; so he is in a lot of pain and very easily irritable... Our daughter is super cranky, and been super clingy and wanting him to hold he but he can't and she keeps having fits about it and not wanting to go to sleep for bed and I just don't know how to take care of both of them, have no help from anyone else, I don't want to have someone watch our daughter until he's healed up or anything...  How do I take care of them both?????

Cheyenne Taylor · Answer

@xryztalroze he was riding his motorcycle wednesday at about 4:45/5pm a car pulled out in front of him and he didn't even have time to break like there was no reason for her to think there was time to turn, he hit in between the opening and the wheel on her front passenger side, cops even said she was stupid for trying to turn when there wasn't enough distance. They said he's out of work at least 6-8 weeks if they don't decide to do surgery, but that's not including weight restrictions or rehab time or anything.

XryztalRoze · Answer

THANK GOD he is ok!!! Wow, the irresponsibility of people today. I am so sorry, but incredibly thankful to Jesus that it didn't have a worse outcome. Everyone goes through storms throughout life. This is yours. I know you won't beliece this right now but storms also carry blessings. Make sure you don't forget to take care of yourself in this. It's really heard to do but it's necessary. I pray the driver and your husband have insurance. It will be absolutely necessary to make a claim against both and file for injury, loss of income, future medical needs, etc. Keep every receipt for things you have to buy, medical bills, everything. Get a good injury attorney to walk you through. Also see if your medical insurance covers in home health care. That will help. This is far more serious than just a fall so they should help. If you don't have a church home of our own call the local churches and see if they know of anyone who can help for a few hours a week. I'm not LDS myself but they have missionaries who will come to your house and help if you ask most times. My heart and prayers are extended to you!

Deleted · Answer

When I was 4.5 months pregnant I had to take care of my husband who had knee replacement surgery and watch our almost 2 year old. It wasn't easy. He was in the hospital 3 days and 3 nights and I had ZERO help from anyone. I also had to drop off my rental car and pickup my car and move all the carseats around and it was a nightmare. We visited him twice a day.  When he finally came home i spent all day chasing my toddler and taking care of my hubby.  It was hard,  and frustrating but we got through it. I really think youll be ok. Just be patient and really get rest any chance you get

Cheyenne Taylor · Answer

@xryztalroze I will probably have to keep her distracted by going to our friends house during the day and just work it out over time to get her used to it all

XryztalRoze · Answer

What happened? Is he ok? Expected to recover quickly? Tell her he has boo boos and that she can blow him kisses and save all her hugs for when he is better. And that he loves her very much. Maybe he can read to her?

Cheyenne Taylor · Answer

@jaaybabby I got her to sleep I had to hold her and keep telling her daddy is hurt and can't hold her, as I rocked her to sleep. Thankfully things should be calm for the evening, hoping tomorrow is easier

XryztalRoze · Answer

Last January my dd1 was a month from her 2nd bday and Daddy had surgery. Couldn't pick her up, couldn't risk her hurting him and I was fully pregnant with baby 2.0. I told her Daddy was sick and couldn't hold her but wanted to and got her outside as much as possible. That let him rest and she got the positive distraction she needed but still allowed me to be there to help. Prayers he heals well fast!

Jordynn 🥀 · Answer

if he lays down will she lay with him ? maybe until she falls asleep then move her to the bed , she’s probably not used to not getting her way with her dad . i know if my daughter couldnt be held or do much with her dad , her whole world would be upside down .

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