You know what’s sad being constantly reminded I don’t work all I do all is just “sweep” and “change…
You know what’s sad being constantly reminded I don’t work all I do all is just “sweep” and “change diapers” my husband had promised me since August we will he get the kids Christmas that week ok Lester we have three weeks we have not one gift for the kids or a tree (he told me this morning that the kids don’t even need a tree) I’m ok with not spending a lot but to get mad at me because you promised to get it this week hurts yes I got mad because my husband wouldn’t give me the money to get the kids their four gifts and he was like well it’s my money you don’t work ok since I don’t work I guess you don’t like clean clothes,food cooked,or a clean house because I don’t bust my ass everyday trying to make you happy or even lay out everything you need for work and heaven forbid you lost something I might not work but I work just as hard as my husband for now on he can pay the bills and buy the food for that week since you know I don’t work for the money
Kaitlyn Hash ·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
I know I know don’t bash him because I don’t work (he told me he rather me not work) and that it’s his money
Caiticat 🌸·
You need to put your foot down. It should be both of your money. As a sahm my husband assures me that I’m able to spend for whatever I want or need for myself the kids or our house. We always talk about big purchases together before buying but you shouldn’t have to ask him about other things. You need to have access to finances.
Kaitlyn Hash ··
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
I have access to everything I have his pay card number memorized but he wants me to ask him before I buy anything
Mimi·
Give him a bill every week. Daycare, cleaning services, laundry services, chef etc. Look up what those different services cost in your area, he needs to realize how much you not “working” helps and saves him.
HaleyGragg.23·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
Marriage is about teamwork and being equal. Even if you arent getting paid for everything you dovit it still work, and for him to act that way is shallow and uncalled for.
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It sounds like he has no respect for you. I could not be a SAHM. I would lose my mind so I admire the ones that can pull it off. It’s HARD work! If he can’t understand what you contribute to the household he is dumber than a box of rocks! Could you possibly start working from home? Find something that will empower you to get your own money. You have to get some control back.
Chyna·
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Being a house mom is a job if he can’t understand that I would stop doing everything altogether! Men can be so unappreciative! I’m sorry you’re going through that