Should i reach out to my baby father and tell him his kid has been born today was my original due date but i had her nov 25 I haven’t talked to him in 4months ...
he didn’t show up to her birth she has my last name we don’t have eachothers phone numbers
my daughter has my last name my BD didn’t show up either and my son will have my last name I invited him to come to this one bec it’s his 5thhhh child and he’s never been to one birth and he said no.... he doesn’t want to be my entertainment whatever that means... Basically do what makes y happy bec when you’re happy your kids are happy and when u are stressed or tense the kids feel that too .....
You should notify him and be honest of what day. Should he ever decide to take you to court, it will not look favorable on you for not telling him. Technically he owed you nothing until baby is here, it's on you to tell him. The rest is on him.
Omg what a precious little bundle of joy! (Personally) I would send a text. No picture no details and see what happens. But it is whats best for you and baby.
I mean she is his daughter too. He deserves to know. Then the ball is in his court. He can't say you didn't let him see his child.
I mean he knows that she had health problems during my pregnancy and he never even checked on her a part of me feels like he doesn’t deserve her
🤬 what a jerk. He doesn't deserve her, but sadly he does deserve to know.
It does not matter if the father wasn’t their throughout your pregnancy.. a father should have the same right as you of knowing you have a new baby. You don’t need time to tell him just do it and therefore he can decide if he wants to be in his child’s life or not... you can’t just take that away and decide she’s yours because she’s both of you guys no matter how much you may dislike him. It’s unfair and clearly childish to hide it from him.
He just as i know it takes 9m to have a baby he knew my baby had health issues before he left she could have died plenty of times it was his decision to not claim my child and leave so why should i be the first one to reach out if he’s showing that he doesn’t gaf about reaching out im here with her not him he knew her due date I could never be childish this is a hard call he hit me while i was pregnant so if he can do that to my unborn what is her danger in real life thank you miss
It may not hit some people that a baby will be born so early before the due date.. he knows she’s coming the 25th but doesn’t know she made an earlier arrival and you shouldn’t deny him of knowing his child is born. It’s his choice if he wants to be a dad but you aren’t giving him that option because you are hiding her from him. Now being pregnant is a huge deal for some people and for other it is not because she was in your body not his.. it’s your responsibility to tell him “hey you didn’t care about my pregnancy but you have the chance to care about your daughter... since now she in not in my body she is in the world for both of us to hold” not exactly like that. But you get the point. Don’t make that mistake.. what do you need time for?? Time for hiding her away ... that’s just not right. This can back fire and he can send you to court for not telling him.. he can then retain more good points in court and decide he wants joint or full custody and this will help him greatly.
@princesssimbabi, you did ask 😅 but if you just wanted to hear support after sounding like you where keeping her from him. I’m not promom I’m pro equality for both parents. And I don’t little when women take advantage and feel like they are entitled to everything about their child but dismiss the other half how helped make the kid. There’s not always a reason but usually there is a reason behind why dads don’t stick around when women are pregnant. But since I’m so scared of voicing my opinion I’ll stop 😂 have a nice one
and you just proved my point even more with your statement but everyone has a opinion doesn’t mean it right
@princesssimbabi, just block her lol that’s what I do ... ( ain’t going back and forth w u, livin my best life ) 😂😂😂😂
Lanie Jay·
You should notify him and be honest of what day. Should he ever decide to take you to court, it will not look favorable on you for not telling him. Technically he owed you nothing until baby is here, it's on you to tell him. The rest is on him.
Chyna·
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She’s a doll 😍❤️
Tiana··
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Thank you