How am I supposed to get my husband to understand that where he wants to move is just not whats best…
How am I supposed to get my husband to understand that where he wants to move is just not whats best for my kids? Everytime he brings it up, I get physically sick. Like I get there is a good job opportunity and that's a big part of picking where to move but so is what's best for our kids and family? He just won't listen to me. All he can think of is being right next to his family again and that's okay but not if it doesn't benefit our kids. I don't know what to do. Everything is going great here. Like if he wants to find a better job here that would be even better but he just wants to move back so badly. 😔😔😠
Sarah Ruybal·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
My so is hell bent on moving where his family plans to. I've told him so many times that other places are cheaper and better for us but he won't listen at all. I love his family and all but I can't wait until we are away from both our familes. So I feel you 100% on this. Don't give up. Do what is gonna bennitfit your family. If anything compromise. Don't move right by them but move a state or two away from them?
Hannah Harding-Duran··
That's what I was thinking but everytime I say let's find a different location he gets mad. Like he wants be right back getting spoiled by his mom. But his family caused so many issues between our marriage and my choices on parenting. So I Will not live right next to them again. Like I'm physically scared to do that again.
Queen Meeks·
Why is moving to that location not good for your children?
Hannah Harding-Duran··
I had to tell him and his sister that it's about what's best for my kids and not what anybody wants. Including my SO, his mom, and his sister. Their wants aren't important to me when it comes to where we should live.
Queen Meeks··
their wants shouldn’t be important to him either. They’re family, but y’all are his immediate family now.
Hannah Harding-Duran··
That's how I think but he only sees that way a tiny bit. He mostly just thinks family is family which is why we can't agree on things when it comes to his family. Don't get me wrong they are good people and they are like family to me too but I can't be closer than 30 minutes to them.
Sarah Ruybal·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I have that problem now! My mil spoils my so really bad. Not to mention the countless lectures his step dad gives on EVERYTHING we do. How we raise our son how we parent in general how we spend our money how we are with each other like it's never ending. He always finds something to lecture about..which causes SOOO many problems between us. I'm all for moving by his family as long as we're on the other side of the state 😂 my compromise was a new car and we HAVE to live at least 4-6 hours away still. That way he still gets to see his family often but not everyday 🤷♀️