Hey mommies so me and my baby's dad have had so many problems in our relationship I've put up with so much we've been together for 2 years already we don't live together he wants us to go live with him again but I don't know if it's the right thing to do he's cheated on me so many times and I have trust issues a cry eveynight just remembering everything he's put me through I really love him I know some of you girls understand me he tells me he's changing that he wants to change but I don't know if I really want to go back again I'm scared what happened the first time will happen again we lived together before but it was just so many problems. Any advice monmies ?
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I agree with the other mommies^^. Personally I’ve been thought some extremely hard situations with my baby’s dad as well but he never did cheat on me. He had and actually still has alcohol problems but he just recently did begin to change. One thing for sure is don’t be with someone just because you have a baby with them because this little person will grow up seeing you guys argue and their little brains are so sensitive to seeing things like that.
Personally, your relationship sounds rocky/unstable, and I suggest fixing that beforehand. Making a big decision like moving in together (regardless of having done it in the past) requires you guys to be ready, and in an unhealthy relationship where you’re untrusting right now doesn’t seem ready. If you guys fix what’s wrong between y’all and you learn to trust at least somewhat again, that’s great! THEN is when I say go for it.
Do what's best for you and your child. Don't stay or be with someone just because you have a child with them. Be sure that he's going to treat you right and that he'll put the both of you first. If he says that he's changing watch his actions. Actions speak louder than words. If he says he's changing or going to change then you will see it. Hope this helps 💕
Dont. Do. It.