I dont want to live with MIL . I have been living on my own since i was 17, first with the father of…

I dont want to live with MIL . I have been living on my own since i was 17, first with the father of my 2 kids and After 8 years we divorced and i have been living on my own since then, i recently got engaged and since the beginning my fiance told me that it was important for him to live with his mom and then if in the future we were to live together he wanted his mom to live with us . He knows i have an issue with this but and after an long talk i said i was ok with it but now time has passed and i just cant hide the sun with a finger i am not ok with it i love my independence is ridiculous to me . His mom doesnt want to move with us either . I dont know what to do if i should tell him that i cant do it or just wait for the moment when he realizes that isnt going to happend because his mom doesnt want to . Is just a very touchy subject i dont want to sound like i dont like his mom #myfirstpost