Y’all these kids are driving my up the wall today! They were fine until hubby went to work a few…

Y’all these kids are driving my up the wall today! They were fine until hubby went to work a few hours ago. Since then it’s been non stop screaming, fighting, throwing stuff everywhere, temper tantrums, 5 yr old refusing dinner just because, dumped out a whole bag of shredded cheese all over my living room, cleaned that up and as I’m doing that they got into my room and got an open pop and spilled that on my carpet while I’m trying to vacuum. Slamming doors and just out right telling me NO when I tell them to stop or sit down etc. like literally just won’t listen to me! I have no idea why they are like this with the mom but listen to the dad but this mama is over it!! I had about 3 hours of sleep and 2 sick kids. I’m seriously over it. I’ve legit tried everything and they just don’t listen to me, he walks in and they’re angels. wtf?! Anyone else’s kids like this lol?!