I can NEVER catch a break with my oldest. And I'm at a loss. Ive tried gentle parenting, I've tried discipline. Ive tried grounding and taking things away, I've tried corners. Ive tried getting on his level and talking calmly. The past week has been HELL. eating shit hes not supposed to, lying, cutting his clothes and throwing chairs at school, filling his sister's cup with lemon juice, tantrums, the whole 9. But today... Today is the ucing on the cake. Went up to get the baby after nap and stopped to pee. Looked over and the trashcan had pee in it. So I asked why he peed in it. He said he didn't the cat must have. So I told him i would leave it for his dad to see then. So he admits he did it. I made him clean it and sent him to his room. So he screamed cried and slammed doors the whole way. I cant y'all. Im at my wits end.