Im really annoyed that my boyfriend has me blocked on all social media and it’s been like this for a few months. I was looking for a message he sent me on messenger and couldn’t find it and he was like “oh it’s cause I have you blocked”. But still didn’t change it. This was at his birthday dinner last night .....
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Here’s my two cents: stop giving us excuses about why he has you blocked and what not and tell him to cut it out. Even if it was as a “joke” or whatever because you guys on in a fight it still is a MAJOR red flag. I don’t care if your son will be here in two weeks, something isn’t right. It’s one thing to say, “oh I forgot I had you still blocked hahaha” but even that would frustrate me.
Everyone has a point, while he may not be posting anything, he can be liking, adding and talking to whom ever he pleases and you won’t see it. Who cares if you can “creep” on him through friends profiles. That is shady as fuck. Own up to the fact that it’s shady and figure it out.
My gut is saying he’s hiding something. Especially if he won’t open things in front of you. There are a lot of secretive apps on there that can make something look like something else.
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They always try to turn it around so they don’t look like the bad one. If he didn’t want to see your posts then he can just unfollow you. Me and my bf has Facebook and both say we are in a relationship but our profiles aren’t linked in the relationship section. Don’t let it brush
Now he’s asking why am I in a bad mood and I was perfectly before I brought all that up . I told him to drop it that there’s clearly nothing to talk about . He asked me if it was because I was blocked . I said you tell me and walked away . Now he’s mad because he says “I try to talk to you about something and you brush it off”
Like no , you said your peace and that’s it .
So I finally talked to him and all he had to say was “why does it matter ? , you got friends that can see my stuff . I have you blocked so I don’t have to see the shit you post . I’m with you all day everyday , why do I need you on my Facebook . You wanna go through my phone ? “ the goes on to say , “you made your Facebook say you were single” . I said “ yeah , because you blocked me “
This all sounds so childish . . . But yet he still won’t unblock me and now we ain’t speaking . @jaygirlsmommy, @rhydersmommy_ajswife, @miaheka, @nbentley88, @xstacey123x, @jodie1991 @badwolfmomma15, @akcatprincess
Okay there’s so many comments on this posts so I don’t want to seem repetitive but DO NOT TOLERATE THIS. DO NOT LET THE RELATIONSHIP GO ON WITHOUT him changing that. Having your OWN girlfriend blocked on social media is fucking sketch. I’m sorry mama I know it hurts but you have to tell him that it’s unacceptable and he better start opening up or it’s just not gonna workout. You deserve better
@jodienbrad, oh ooohhhhhh so this can be why.
It seems like he’s been like this for awhile, not treating you the way you should be treated... is the relationship really worth all of this... you deserve better, but if this relationship is worth everything to you you should sit down and talk to him... there are just so many red flags.
Ok well I hope you get to the bottom of this and that hes not doing anything to ruin the relationship ❤
are you sure he isn't still seeing the girl that he slept with while you was on a break maybe she still thinks that he is still single and thats why that you are still blocked?
Sadly he hasn’t had a job since August... and I’m pretty sure because he is always with me , his car is broke down so I have to give him rides so I know where he’s at all the time but that doesn’t mean he can’t be texting someone .
@savannahrae, wait wait. Has he even been looking for a job? No job since August! I wouldn’t be having that. If he has no job and is just going around playing man whore that’s definitely not cool. If I was you I would be putting my foot down real fast and setting him straight or else he would be kissing my ass good bye.
They day u drop his ass, have a party!! Been there done that. Ur not an ugly chick, u will survive without his ego, and asshole-ness
@sorabove, that is the starter kit to cheating. This sounds awful.
I am sure later down the line he will have photos of his “cousin” naked and say its for funnnzzzies.
Op, Just know the warning signs please☹️ some of these ladies may have been through it and are saving you the hassle. I had an ex who did this to me and BAM! It was a month before I found out. That relationship did not last.
A joke? He is trying to “quick save” this one. And maybe he thinks you are that gullible.
Here’s my two cents: stop giving us excuses about why he has you blocked and what not and tell him to cut it out. Even if it was as a “joke” or whatever because you guys on in a fight it still is a MAJOR red flag. I don’t care if your son will be here in two weeks, something isn’t right. It’s one thing to say, “oh I forgot I had you still blocked hahaha” but even that would frustrate me.
Everyone has a point, while he may not be posting anything, he can be liking, adding and talking to whom ever he pleases and you won’t see it. Who cares if you can “creep” on him through friends profiles. That is shady as fuck. Own up to the fact that it’s shady and figure it out.
My gut is saying he’s hiding something. Especially if he won’t open things in front of you. There are a lot of secretive apps on there that can make something look like something else.
We also just got a laptop , he set it up and then asked me if I wanted to be added on it . Like so when you open it you have two separate accounts on the laptop mine and his instead of just having it all one . He does have a password on his , I just set mine up as guest cause I won’t really use it .
let your phone run out of battery and show him its off then tell him you need to look something up or use it ect and see if he gives you it no problem. if he starts to panic or won't give you it then there's probably something to hide
can you not get hold of his phone and have alook through it
There’s no point in time that he doesn’t have it on him or it’s out but he’s right there .
Blocked on social media and protective over his phone? 🤨🤔 🏃♀️💨
Not protective were he’s always hiding it but just is on it a lot more or if he sees he got a notification he won’t always open around me .
is there a way you can get ahold of his phone without him around? Like when he’s in the shower or something?
@sorabove, he takes his phone in the bathroom with and plays music which isn’t anything new , he’s done that since day one . He doesn’t locked me out but he plays music off YouTube and would know if I was on it .
Maybe sit down and have a proper talk with him. Always trust your gut huni. I would push and push for answers. Liers always get caught out. I hope for your sake it’s nothing but if it’s more then stay strong x
Like, your current boyfriend? WTF. Red flag. 😳
The original reason was because about two months ago all we were doing was fighting , he left for a week and blocked me on everything so he didn’t have to see my “sad , upset , man hate post” but still has yet to unblock me since . His momma will tell him when I post anything questionable about our relationship like if she thinks we are having issues and he’ll wanna get defensive .
@savannahrae, Yikes... yeah way too much drama for me. My husband and I have zero drama so I could not handle that. So that’s a big nope from me. 😂 I would not put up with it but that’s just where I stand.
@nbentley88, I can still creep on his stuff from friends pages and it’s nothing bad . But he does seem protective over his phone lately and I’ve called him out and he says it’s all in my head (go figure) . We are about to make a 5 hour move away from our hometown so it’s just all sketchy and scary . I have a daughter from a previous relationship and I just don’t want to leave my family to later on find out some shit .
I could still look on his too but he made a whole other one and blocked me from that one and also put a lock on his phone. If they are protective over things like that or try and keep you out of them...something isn't right, the are hiding something. Good luck mama.
@nbentley88, I can say he doesn’t have a lock on his phone but I do agree something is strange . Thank you .
My ex did this and I found out he was talking to other girls pretending he was single and didn't even mention having a son or anything. But, he had a whole other fb made up lol. Alarm bells for sure. Sorry you're going through this mama.
He is annoyed you’ll ruin his “single” on the internet flow😳
We will have a son in two weeks or less too . I’m just annoyed .
@jaygirlsmommy, the first time I realized he blocked me he left his thing “in a relationship” then got mad when I changed mine to single because he wanted to block me . So he changed his . This all sounds childish , I know , I just don’t understand why .
@jaygirlsmommy, yes AGREE and he sounds like he is in high school with this ridiculousness.
@jaygirlsmommy, @miaheka, @cfjones914, @xstacey123x s just weird because he doesn’t know that I can creep on his stuff from friends and he doesn’t post anything that needs to be hidden . It’s mainly all fishing stuff . Our son will be here in two weeks or less and it just seems odd .
He don't have to post but his friends list might have a lot of female friends or he may message alot of females. 🤦🏻♀️
He’s probably using it mostly for messenger, you can also search the posts and pictures he likes. If you’re blocked you can’t be on his page to comment, tag or like to make him look unavailable.
There ain’t no way in hell I’d be dealing with that!
A man who has you blocked has something to hide. 🙄