Time is approaching for our second baby boy to be here and I have lately been finding myself so…
Time is approaching for our second baby boy to be here and I have lately been finding myself so emotional over it. Our first son is literally my whole entire world and I’m constantly thinking the worst. What if he thinks we don’t love him any more? What if he doesn’t feel important? What if he thinks we love his brother more than him? It’s just been us and our son for 2 whole years, no other kids or babies have gotten our full attention. My first son has such a special place in my heart that no other child will be able to replace. How am I gonna love another baby as much as I love him?
I’m an emotional wreck today 😭
Susie Ann·
They all go through jelaousy . He will get over it . Besides hed be the same way if it was a girl and he will need to get used to the fact hes not the only one but i promise he wil be fine
Susie Ann·
And so will you . I got two baby’s and my love for each of them is just as strong as the other but different at the same time because they are three years apart . They are both ur babies ur gonna have to love em differently age wise but they will both know they are loved by u .
Susie Ann·
Also I went through this too . This is my third
Mellissa Tetreault·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
I felt the same with my second pregnancy but some how the second one will find another place in ur heart
Gina Vannoy·
Мама троих детей
I’ll share my very recent experience as my daughter is two weeks old today. The love you feel for your other children will not be hard trust me. What was hard for me was seeing my son struggle with not having his mom in what was our daily routine. His reaction to this was he basically shut me out for the first week. He didn’t want me to do anything for him once I could again. I barely got hugs and kisses. I got extremely depressed by day 5 or 6 of this and just cried and cried. I missed him soooooo much but all he wanted was his dad. And then it was like a switch flipped. Literally the next day after my breakdown he climbed up on the couch with me while I was feeding her and just snuggled in. After that it’s gone right back to normal except that it’s still a new normal. I still have a baby that’s in my arms more than not at the moment but he is by my side through most of it. It might be rough at first but it will get better momma. Good luck 🍀
Kaila··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
That’s another thing I’m so worried about! We have an every day routine, one that includes cuddling on the couch after he eats breakfast. I don’t want him to “hate” me because I have to tend to his little brother more than him. Little things like that just break my heart 😓