Hi. So I have my almost 2.5 year old son from my first donor egg cycle. I had 4 embryos make day 5. My 1st transfer was a blighted ovum, then chemical, then my son. I transferred my last embryo in May and it failed to implant. I did another cycle and no blasts on day 5 yesterday which was suppose to be transfer day. They called today and i had 1 6 day blast (i think a 4BB) they recommend freezing instead of transferring today. I am petrified of it thawing or not implanting as it is the only one.
Well it’s official now. I had hysteroscopy and they found scar tissue. I have my son and am grateful for him so i think i am done. We have to figure out what to do with the embryo we made but i am not putting myself through 2 more procedures (1 to fix the scar tissue and another to check it). Thanks for the support
Please don’t give up so easily. This struggle with infertility is stressful enough but I know right now you’re upset and feel defeated. When you say you think you’re done tells me you’re not. It’s ok to feel down and out for the moment but bumps in the road are short lived. I’m glad they found what the issue was so this doesn’t hinder implantation in the future. Albeit your lining issues go away too. I want you to know that you’re not a lone in this. It’s hard but in the end you’ll get that rainbow.
Last year I found out from the hsg that I have a swollen Fallopian tube. Didn’t make sense my tubes were fine before doing IVF however something changed afterwards. I was upset because it makes it more of a challenge to do IUIs and getting pregnant on our own well due to mfi May never happen again so a girl could only dream. I decided I wasn’t going to let this defeat me and keep marching on. Today at 38wks3days I’m being induced because of low amniotic fluid.
Yeah, I know it only takes one, and if this is my second miracle I’ll be happy i only had 1 embryo, but I am petrified at only having 1 shot. It took me 3 to have my son, this is my second since having him. The last one didn’t implant.
That’s right around the corner! I dislike how IVF is a numbers game. We think after producing so many follicles they’ll all fertilize and make it to day five. I still can’t believe in our case we started out with 11, five were good, by day five one was thrown out they transferred two and one stuck, we had two frozen left that made it to day six, however because of one Mia we ended up transferring one. Overall after the entire process we had two make it! It’s just mind boggling after where we started.
I know your back story and it just sucks what you’re going through but remember to remain strong. I have a good feeling this is the one! Have you maybe thought about seeing a different RE just to seek a second opinion? Sometimes change is good.
My lining was ok, i was suppose to do a transfer. I think it has to do with sims different theories. One is that the embryo will do better in uterus so do transfer. The other, which was my dr thought was my lining due to progesterone would be a day ahead since embryo was a day behind. Now i am sure in a typical pregnancy this happens all the time so i am not sure how important it is. I guess it is also possible that can be a cause of a chemical pregnancy too. I am also going to go through with the hysteroscopy even though i really don’t want to because if something is wrong (she keeps saying my lining looks inconsistent in places, even though most likely nothing i don’t want yo waste my only embryo.
Hmmm not sure why they wanted the blastocyst frozen when that’s a very good quality embryo. I wouldn’t have waited because if everything is where it should be then they should of transferred it. I had two day 6 blast and one ended up missing from thawing after sitting in a freezer for two years. Currently pregnant at week 37 so any day now after having cerclage removed. How was your uterine lining?