Any lady's have ex military husband or boyfriends that have been hurt why in the military. My…

Any lady's have ex military husband or boyfriends that have been hurt why in the military. My husband broke his hips in the army back in 2009. Every day he lives with pain well in 4 years or being together I have never seen him cry in pain. Tonight he did i was so scared I could not get him up I had to call his dad to help me get him up. I just don't know how to help him. He hurts every day so much. Our sex life suffers. We are trying for number two but more time then not he can't finish because the pain is so bad. I just need someone to say he will be ok and we will both get our other baby we want. Sorry for the long post