Get a puppy

I lost my son in March at 3 days old and I’m currently 20 weeks 2 days pregnant.. my husband did not want a baby after a losing our son because he was terrified of losing another but eventually he grew open to

It and one day he told me he was ready to try again .. maybe just give him time and he’ll grow open to it .. the hardest thing after a losing a baby is wanting a another baby so soon I thought I was crazy for feeling like that while grieving the lost of my son .. Just give it Time and I’m sorry for your loss too 🙏❤️

I have a counselor and it’s not like I’m going to force him to have sex with me and I’m going to talk to him about it and see what he says I haven’t asked him I a while and if he doesn’t want to then I will respect it

I’d take some time for both you & your boyfriend to grieve & heal after the loss of your daughter. I’m so sorry you went through that, but I don’t think this is the solution.

I’d also recommend talking with someone to help guide you through the emotions you must be experiencing. Your boyfriend may not be mentally ready for another baby right now because of what happened, and that definitely needs to be respected.

I'm sorry you lost your daughter. But I suggest counseling or therapy to work through those emotions. Getting pregnant so soon afterwards isn't good for your physical or psychological health. You want to be physically and emotionally strong for your next child. I've lost a child too. Please go speak to someone about how you're feeling. Don't trick your boyfriend into having another baby because of your loss though, take his emotions into consideration too.

A surprise baby is a hell of a lot different than a tricked you baby. If he doesn’t want one- you need to respect that.

Please don't have a child because you feel you need one. Just because he stayed with you the first time doesn't guarantee a second especially if you trick him into it. Go do something for yourself. Take up a hobby, go back to school, or enjoy the baby you have now.

I'd be pissed if my husband got me pregnant just because he decided it was time to try even when he knows I don't want a baby right now. What a crappy thing to do.

If he doesn’t want a baby right now, you should respect that. Having a baby should be something both of you want, not you just doing it because you don’t feel complete.

The first baby was a surprise and he stayed with me and I’m going to talk to him about getting pregnant again after he gets out of work

Well, that sounds like the perfect way to grow a healthy relationship. Surprise babies always do the trick.

He already knows that I want to get pregnant again

I definitely wouldn’t try to get pregnant without your boyfriend’s knowledge. If he doesn’t want a baby right now, you have to respect that.

That doesn’t sound like a good idea. If he isn’t ready for a baby then you need to respect that or it’ll more then likely cause issues.

You're going to try to get pregnant when your bf doesn't want a baby?

I'm sorry you're feeling incomplete without a little one but u both should be on the same page 😕