So i never give in when he throws a tantrum.. every time i tell him that screaming and crying wont get him what he wants and when i say no it's no. But yet his tantrums last longer and longer.. and i keep not giving in, ignoring him and rewarding him (with lots of attention, hug and kisses) after he calms down and look at me in the eyes when i explain to him... but now i need supports not to give in.. i have constant headhache from him screaming the biggest part of the day and i just want him to stop.. i know giving in wont help him or me in the future but right now my head and ears and mind are so tired... with the little one in a growth spurr needing to feed every hour or so.. i just wanna lock myself in my room and let him watch all the t.v he wants and eat all the junk he wants and make all the mess he wants just for 1 day of quiet..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
To all BBers...
I just wanted to let you all know I am thankful that you guys look out for one another, always give your opinion, and try to make people feel better when they are feeling down...you women are amazing...have a blessed night/day...☺️
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
So Charlies started crying when im feeding him solids was getting stressed thinking why wont he eat.. but when i offer him finger foods he will happily eat.. its like he just wants to do it himself! Anyone else had this?