What are some ideas that someone can recommend to include my 12 year old in some stuff so she won’t have to feel left out? I have a 9 month old daughter as well. I know it’s a huge age difference but I just want her to feel Included in a lot of things. I don’t want her to feel like I chose baby over her or that I love her any less, when I love both my girls the same very much. Any tips or ideas would be so helpful.