How do you calm your baby when he/she wants to scream because your not holding her/him? FTM and m…

You hold them. Research 4th trimester.

You can get a baby carrier. Most of your time will be spent holding that’s what they need.

@amouryaya09, every carrier I have she is too small for because she is so preemie

@cams, I do hold her all day and night.

@twilamae2017, oh okay. She will need to extra snuggles. It takes a while to maneuver but you’ll get it.

Swaddle her works for mine

Swaddle or wear her

@massmomma16, I do swaddle her but all my carrier’s she is way to little for and the dr wants her to learn to sleep not being held

It can get tiresome and this part is so unexpected no one talks about alot of new born details so they can be overwhelming at first. She just needs lots of skin on skin swaddling try swings and vibrating bassinets etc. Look up the colic hold for calming un controlable cries. Hang in there hun. Put your used t shirt near by safely for your scent.

@mommytojamesplus1, I will try putting T-shirt by her because swings bouncers and bassinets don’t work and we get lots of skin to skin that’s how we sleep. I will look up the comic hold

@twilamae2017 sounds good. Good luck it will get easier as she learns self soothing