Marriage is a commitment to be together for the rest of your lives.
Until both of you die, through the mid life crisis, the doubts, the debts, the distance, the nasty moments and the ugly side, the struggles and the sickness. I’ve watched my love shit himself in front of me, make mistakes, choose money over priority, disappoint me, disappoint himself, say things he regretted, Ive seen him cry once in his weakest moment.
Do not get married for the sake of a kid but out of pure love for each other and that means accepting that they aren’t healthy and you’ll end up taking care of them as their body ages way before yours ( in sickness or health ) or putting effort to make both of you healthy so you can live longer together and that also means being on the same page about everything financial, arguments over money can only break a in other words strong bond of trust.
Both your money and his is now “family”.
keeping things separate only keeps the door open to resentment.
Other than that I can say, it’s wonderful to wait to marry because it really is more than two names on a piece of paper and a ring on the finger.
My gay friend is on his third divorce in 5 years because it means nothing to him but a step before continuing life normally.
My boyfriend and I vowed not to marry for the sake of our kid but out of devotion only.
Make sure he’s your best friend, forgiveness and respect first, that you can look at each other with pure love and laugh at weird times, always speak the truth without holding back and have conversations that get through the topic instead of ignoring it.
Marriage is a commitment to be together for the rest of your lives.
Until both of you die, through the mid life crisis, the doubts, the debts, the distance, the nasty moments and the ugly side, the struggles and the sickness. I’ve watched my love shit himself in front of me, make mistakes, choose money over priority, disappoint me, disappoint himself, say things he regretted, Ive seen him cry once in his weakest moment.
Do not get married for the sake of a kid but out of pure love for each other and that means accepting that they aren’t healthy and you’ll end up taking care of them as their body ages way before yours ( in sickness or health ) or putting effort to make both of you healthy so you can live longer together and that also means being on the same page about everything financial, arguments over money can only break a in other words strong bond of trust.
Both your money and his is now “family”.
keeping things separate only keeps the door open to resentment.
Other than that I can say, it’s wonderful to wait to marry because it really is more than two names on a piece of paper and a ring on the finger.
My gay friend is on his third divorce in 5 years because it means nothing to him but a step before continuing life normally.
My boyfriend and I vowed not to marry for the sake of our kid but out of devotion only.
Make sure he’s your best friend, forgiveness and respect first, that you can look at each other with pure love and laugh at weird times, always speak the truth without holding back and have conversations that get through the topic instead of ignoring it.