How can I make myself stop feeling guilty for having another baby? I am happy to be having another baby, another daughter, but I keep crying because I feel bad for my oldest. She has had my undivided attention for the past 2 years and i just feel bad now.
I know exactly how you feel I had it my whole pregnancy I felt guilty and cried every day but once he was born it went away but once they were together i stopped feeling guilty altogether kaysen was of course jealous of baby but make sure you give them both lots of attention and let big sister help with her baby sister it really does help a lot even till this day kaysen has to help hold Koopers bottle help feed him throw his diapers away get him toys there bond is great and there best friends now
I definitely can relate I feel terrible sometimes because my oldest is obviously not a baby anymore & my youngest now 3 gets most the attention from almost everyone because she’s a handful.
@itty_bitty after I have her sister she is going to stay with her dad for about a week and I am afraid she is going to think I am pushing her away because of the new baby. I'm having her sister this coming up Monday and I am literally a ball of emotion and cant handle it. I dont even have my oldest right now becayse it is her dads weekend. I was suppose to get her back today, but he completely forgot I wanted her today and tomorrow and that id bring her back to him Sunday night since i had to be at the hospital at 5:30am monday
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
My significant other hasn’t been to one appt. am I crazy for being bothered about it? I’m already depressed I’m having another baby. I didn’t even want anymore. I feel like I don’t have the support I need.
is it bad that i want another baby....but i know we cant have one cause we cant afford another baby right now.... 😔
Rave!!!
So I was taking my 3 hour nap today, and I woke up to the baby flutters. That made my day and I have no school tomorrow!!!!! Thank you baby for making your mommy happy!!! Ugh I had a bad day but feeling the flutters was the highlight of my day (:
Don't worry hunny, my oldest was 11 when her sister was born and I still feel that way. Its a natural feeling and it shows how good of a mom you are and that you love your kids. Best believe your oldest will love up on the baby!!!