I’m over this marriage I am finally going take the step and move out everything makes it’s so…

so sorry you’re going through this. i am not married, but have a month old daughter and am deciding i want to finally split from her father from absolute unhappiness. the relationship was so toxic and even though it’s hard, i think this is our bet choice!

@lcost, it’s very hard because I been with him almost 9 year but married for two year and it’s just hard because we have a one year old and a baby on the way she is going be here in 4 more month and it’s like I can’t count on him for noting and he always saying for me to leave that he doesn’t leave me and I never leave but I think it’s time for me to leave

omg that’s really hard being together for so long and i think that’s why you kept staying to try and work it out. i felt that way and i’ve only been with him for less than two years! but during pregnancy he was talking to other girls and i took it when i should have left the first time. now there’s just more and more that keeps adding up and at this point i need to stop settling and need to know my worth 🙌🏽

Leave him girl. Your happiness is most important. Your babies deserve a mama at her best! 💙

@chasha2017, you right I deserve happiness

Separation can make a man appreciate and value a woman more. It is funny how some men do a total 360 when they truly believe they may have lost their woman. I think space will do both of you some good even if it doesnt lead to divorce. Separation can either make or break a marriage...either way both of you will gain some clarity.

By the way, I have been with my husband for 10.5 years and married for 4 years...

1 more thing...Don't allow anyone to persuade you into filing for a divorce. It is your marriage, your choice. Try to exhaust other options before going down that route. I think if your situation is really bad, separation is a good step in the right direction. Maybe even seek therapy if the marriage is worth saving...but you have to make that choice.

@mamabear_betonme, yeah that’s what I’m doing I am going to separate maybe that would show him who what’s his missing on