I’m really starting to hate him (SO) from a distance. I hate to say that but lately all he wants to…

I’m really starting to hate him (SO) from a distance. I hate to say that but lately all he wants to do is argue and fight. I expressed to him earlier that he didn’t need to tell me how to parent my kids when baby arrives (he thinks you should be completely silent at all times around a sleeping newborn) & I assured him that it’s better to go about normal life & sounds in general, I’m not forcing any of my kids to live in silence. He got mad when I told him I’m feeling like he’s undermining me and just on the phone said “after listening to you on the phone ranting earlier I had a head ache and had to take a nap” ... bet who won’t be answering the phone for the next week since he wants to be negative and I’m all for blocking negativity 🤷🏼‍♀️👏🏽.