If you are planning on raising a baby dependent on welfare, you should rethink that. Government assistance is great for the people who truly need the help.
Its not for people who are bored & want a new baby even though they have a 10 month old 🤦🏻‍♀️
That combined with the fact you want to have a baby with someone you’ve dated for 10 months, thinking it’ll bring you closer together, shows how much you should not have another baby right now

@candixox being bored isn't really a good reason to create a new life, especially if you're not financially stable at this point in time.

There's plenty of time for you to have another baby when you and your boyfriend are both ready.

@candixox but if he says that its not a good time to have a baby because you're not financially stable. .... then that means you BOTH arent ready... because he wants to wait.

What do you mean by you’re so used to having twins? Or siblings to associate with him?

This post confuzzles me.

2 under 2 isn’t easy. Please think this through. It put a lot of strain on a relationship especially a newish one.

@masseymomma16 yes hes home

You don’t have custody of your 10 month old????? You said 3 months ago you “get visits” with him! Yet you’re wanting to have another?!?Wow. 🤦🏻‍♀️

If you can’t afford a baby you shouldn’t be having one. He sounds fairly smart!

OP, u are all over the place girl. That’s why I’m asking bc I can’t even take you serious

@queenmeeks, I saw that too.

@ari. Yes baring thru the comments lol

I worked at a daycare too. It’s not even close to the same thing. Going from 1 kid to 2 was difficult for me. Some days it’s still difficult. It’ll be easier if you have a strong relationship, not one you’re trying to strengthen by adding a baby.

@lizology27_bb yes

Its only a matter of time before I get another job I just stopped working temporarily and im back government will not be permanently for me

@xxoceanbabexx I used to work at a daycare and don't associate it with being hard i love kids

Is this thread for real though? Like for real for real?

No he is at home now thank God