My husband took/sold my anxiety and antidepressants because he said he “was helping me” because he said I depend on them too much. I haven’t taken my anxiety meds for 4 months and I haven’t taken my antidepressants for a month. So how am I depending on them??? I just recently started taking them when I need them and since I started working last week I kinda need my anxiety meds because Im too busy worrying about my kids while I’m at work and when I come home I’m worried about what argument he’s going to start with me when I get home or in the morning. He knows I just recently stared taking them and tried to make me look like I’m a pill junky in front of his friends. He got in my face and flipped me off and then threw a pillow at me when I called him out for selling my pills. Then tried to say I hit him. I’m not stupid. I’m not going to risk leaving my kids with some psycho.
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I'm really sorry your going threw this. It is against the law to even take someones medication let alone sell it. You could inform your doctor I'm not really sure what they'll do depending on if the medication is a controlled substance
I watched my mom go threw something similar with a guy she dated when ever she'd get on her medication or have a job an would start being able to get things done an feel better an more motivated about life he'd take her medication or cash for her medication hell hed go as far as fighting with her all night before a check up appointment or before work so she'd be late or call in. The way I saw it is they see you getting ahead they know you'll realize I dont need the crap they put you threw an eventually they'll be out. them causing chaos an telling everyone around you your some whack they are causing you to stay in a constant mind fog an to feel crappy. No one can function with constant mayhem NO ONE.
Why are you still with him?? You could deff do better. You deserve someone who doesn't make your mental health worse.
Besides the fact that he’s a dick and selling someone else’s prescription is a felony, he clearly doesn’t grasp the seriousness of selling/taking away someone’s medicine. That prescription is just as important and necessary a prescription for any physical medical condition. Calling you names & throwing things at you is abusive behavior.
I'm with @beronicalongoria your husband sounds like a huge part of where your depression and anxiety are coming from in the first place. It's your life and you've got to make the decision but I think leaving him would be a great start to a wonderful new life for you and your kids!
Omg.. Im so sorry girl! He sounds like a piece of fucking work! On another note: selling your medication is against the law. Sounds like he got caught and flipped it so you sounds like the bad guy and the heats off him.. Definitely narcissistic behavior.
@rainbow-baby, I only take my anxiety pills when I’m having a really bad anxiety attack’s and I take my depression pills again because I noticed my depression getting worse because of how he’s constantly putting me down now and talking crap. So I started taking them again. He made me look like I’m some psycho who needs to be locked up and told his friend he’s scared to leave the kids with me because he’s scared of what I might do. I would never harm my kids never. When I have a day where I’m super depressed it about me wishing I wasn’t alive and me thinking my kids are better off without me. I never thought about harming my kids. He made it seem like I can’t function without those pills.
@tennesseehawk, he claims to have a job so my mom has my kids until I get off work. He just doesn’t like taking care of his own 2 kids but is quick to take my other 2 kids his step kids because they are older.
I take anxiety meds too. When one does something wrong for their benefit, they ignore the wrong and blame someone else disregarding that they are breaking them down.
Selling anti depressants...? That’s a new one. He sounds like a complete loser, and like he’s got some issues he needs to see someone about. If you won’t even leave your kids with him, why are you with him?
@juliam27 I'm so sorry you are going through that. You need the right support system and he's making things worse!