Mommy rant!

So everyone thinks my boy twin doesn't like them cause he gets cranky when he gets bored or tired, and so they get all quick to hand him back, I try to explain he is just tired or bored but they keep saying he doesn't like then and hands him back to me (even his dad does this some times but he is so much better than most), and I can't get them to understand he does it to me more than anyone, so frustrating! He misses out on personal time and outings his twin sister gets cause they don't understand :/ my heart hurts for him