He is such a dick😢 every time I talk to him he blocks me he is so cold hearted he doesn’t realize how hard it is for me to let go.
@ashleyvaughn20133, this goes both ways with men and women. When women tell men to leave them alone, we mean it, right? Leave me alone. And when they don’t, it becomes creepy, or annoying, or weird, or downright scary.
The same thing applies. You’re a grown woman, and at this point you need to realize that NO absolutely, positively means NO! Without questioning, without begging, without coaxing, without guilting them... accept that they have said no, and you need to respect that. You would want that same respect for yourself.
@ashleyvaughn20133, Well you just have to be there’s no other options, and you can’t force him to want you.
It's gonna be hard to let go for now but trust me you're going to get over him. There's going to be another guy out there for you. And when he see's you happy without him he's gonna be the one suffering. Don't chase after an asshole, don't let him know he's won.
@ashleyvaughn20133, I would block him on all social media’s, and get a hobby, or loose my self in my work. Dwelling on it will only do more harm, seek out a professional to talk to if you don’t feel like you are strong enough to get trough it yourself.
@ashleyvaughn20133, Stop bothering him and move on that’s what I would do. I’d not keep torturing myself. It’s too hard. We’ve all lost someone it’s never easy but you always have to let go.
You have to move on. Trying to be with someone who doesn't want you is gonna hurt you more in the long run.
Girl... Block him & keep him blocked. Stop playing yourself.
It sucks but if he’s done he likely doesn’t want to have communication with you....That’s generally why people break up. You need to let go and move on, and not bother him. If you need to speak with someone try a counsellor ❤️
I think some of you who commented should be a lot more respectful towards this young lady. When you see someone struggling with something do not put them down and make harsh comments no matter what the situation is because you honestly never know what you are going to face one day, probaly the same situation that she is facing. My advice to you is try to seek professional help like a therapist. You need to talk to someone who you can talk with that will not pass judgement on you but still be honest and help you. In the meantime until you can do that try and just get out and do leisure activity to keep your mind off of the situation. I know that it will not be easy to let go but it is whats best for you and one day you will meet someone that is going to be just for you but first you have to get yourself right love, physically, mentally, and emotionally so when that time comes you can be ready. I'm here if you need to talk. ❤