@nikki90xx, it’s so nuts how it literally happens when you least expect it!!! That’s great! I think him and I both need to just relax and make it fun!

I stopped telling him when I was fertile and when I was due to ovulate and we just bd when we felt like it. I was still testing everyday and also doing pg tests but didn’t tell him. It became a chore when I was telling him about timing etc etc and not fun. We got so wrapped up in ‘trying’ we forgot about each other’s needs. On the month my fertility monitor didn’t detect ovulation is the month we conceived🤷🏻‍♀️. If it wasn’t for him being in the ‘mood’ we wouldn’t be where we are now. Xx

Did any of your husbands get “upset” or “bummed out” after getting a negative test?

@day1401, yes that’s true. Not having sex only during ovulation time.

With my hubby, I just had to keep reminding him that I wasn’t only wanting him because I wanted to get pregnant. And then still doing it even after a negative month.

@gingiej1207, that’s awesome! Yeah stress isn’t the best! That’s for sure! I just need to keep it fun! Fun and spontaneous!

Took us 15 months he really didn't stress on it just let it happen when it was meant to and enjoyed all the sex while he could

Hubby didn't care we humped all the time he enjoyed it didn't complain

@rmreed, right! It’s no ones fault! It just takes time! I feel like he doesn’t fully understand that

@devd92 That's how mine felt. Maybe research all that it takes? There are so many things that play a role! Definitely not completely on him

@rmreed, yeah I feel like this is common. I just feel bad for him. I think he feels like this is his fault that I’m not getting pregnant yet.

We experienced this and I'm not sure if anything ever truly helped as much as I wanted it to! Just reminding him that itll happen when it's meant to happen and that you love him regardless! The second month of when we gave up on trying is when we got pregnant! Too much stress in the beginning lol. Took us 1 year and 1 month!