Long story but I need some advice! I was seeing someone in September last year we did try to sleep…
Long story but I need some advice! I was seeing someone in September last year we did try to sleep together but he was literally so drunk nothing worked he's not harassing me like messaging etc but he's stalking my fb profile of other people's going around saying I was sleeping with him in December time and there's a possibility that my newborn could be his even though I conceived in January and wasn't sleeping with him in December I have his mum messaging asking for photos of my baby is there anything I can do to keep them away from me? I've had to block them all and set my privacy settings to just me on Facebook but they also only live around the corner from me and I'm scared my partner is going to get really angry when he sees him when he's saying all this about his child!😢 he's generally lost the plot and I need him to stay away!
K·
I don't really think the is anything you can do unless there harassing you after you've told them not to message or speak too you,I'm not surprised your partner is fumming minor would be to if someone was saying that about our kids just try telling him to calm down and it isn't worth it if they lend up fighting he could he arrested and that's the last thing you need with a newborn xx @olivia_monique
Nicole Marie 💫·
Мама сына-младенца
If they do come to the house or stop you in the street, inform the police tell them they're harassing you and your partner! The only thing you can do really... xxx
T ·
Next time someone says he says he’s the dad just say - A) he’s not and B) your maths is really bad if you believe us ATTEMPTING to sleep together back in September last year would result in me having a baby in the following September..... pregnant for 12months, really?
And just leave it at that, they’ll shut up as it’s just to ridiculous and making them look silly to even listen and repeat it xx
T ·
The only thing that would probably fully stop them (the guy and his family) from saying it would probably be a DNA test, which is so bad as he knows there’s no way he could be the dad and it’s not fair on you and your partner but other then that I can’t think of anything that would put a stop to it all xx
Anonymous·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@x-t-x, it's just the fact he's saying we was sleeping together in December but that also wouldn't add up to October 15th due date obviously my hormones are everywhere and my partner believes me im just scared it's gonna come between us xxx
Anonymous·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@nicolemariehooperxo, I will do definitely don't need the stress it's supposed to be a happy time for us all! @chesscalouise2, exactly I've told him that he said he isn't gonna confront him until something else is said or they try to talk to me in the street his mums obviously even more stupid considering she's a mother and knows pregnancy is only 9months!xxx
T ·
@olivia_monique, hun he could say you was sleeping together as much as he likes he knows he can’t be the dad. And like you say due date was 15th Oct there’s no way you would of been told you was due 10months later, anyone who listens to him will realise that.
Aww hun try and not let it worry you, hard I know, but you should be enjoying this time with ya new bubs not worrying over some idiot talking crap. Just switch all that off and just concentrate on your family :) your partners there for you and he knows you wouldn’t be given a 10month due date either lol xx
Anonymous·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@x-t-x, thank you hun💕💕
Anonymous·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bitchcraft, I would but why should I waste money when I know the truth🙄xx
T ·
@olivia_monique, sorry jumping in but you could always blag it, he’s lying so maybe counteract with a lie too...... I wouldn’t usually say lie about this kind thing but in a way your not as he’s not bubs dad ya just lying over payin out money for someone to say what you and he already know. Only thing would be if he wanted to see results but then he might not as he knows he’s lying. OR say fine you pay for a DNA test to prove what you & he already know. If he really believes he’s bubs dad he’ll pay for it but if he knows he’s just lying to cause trouble then he won’t pay out xx
Laura·
Message him and the mother saying the baby is 100% not yours so don't message me again or I'll contact the police!! And then block them x
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
Wow the amount of people who like to cause drama when a newborn enters the world 🤦🏻♀️
contact the mother and say it’s impossible and ask why all of a sudden are they bringing this to your attention now not while you was pregnant also say you will contact the police if they harass you if it comes to it say your happy to do a dna to shut them up aslong as they pay for it,... they’ll soon stop bothering you xxx
Anonymous·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@laurabump27, @erincharliebubba, messaging them would show then it bothers me I'm just gonna leave them to it I know the truth and I sure as hell know who my babies father is I will contact the police if they stop me on the street I'm just scared for if I have both kids they cause a big scene in front of them xxx
Anonymous·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@vixster, my partner knows I told him as soon as I found out he knows the truth I'm going to see if they say anything else and just stay calm as it is just stirrers xx