Keep an opened mind don't let anyone or anything bring you down to make yourself think or feel that you can't handle this on your own I did it with my kids alone an look at me now accomplished mother of 3 with a good man who loves our son plus the 2 I had before him 2 years strong an he helps me with everything now I never ask others for none not even family don't never give up you have this challenge for a reason love stay strong be brave an do you!