I need advice! How do you ladies do it with two or more kids?? I recently found out I was pregnant, I did it on purpose, did not think it would happen so fast. Took 3 years for my son. I am terrified of having two at once! My son sleeps great and is generally happy. I just don’t know how how to manage two? I just worry I won’t have the time or energy for both and I don’t want my son to feel neglected. It’s probably just the hormones but I am freaking out a little. Any tips or happy thoughts are welcome!
@mombie., @brownsugarluv, thanks for the encouragement ladies. I know how lucky I am that my son sleeps 10 hours a night. I think that’s why I am extra nervous! How could I get that lucky twice.
2 kids was easy. The transition was smooth. For the most part they’re best friends.
Everyone handles it differently. What works for one family may not work for the next. I try to stay organized and plan ahead. Make sure you have schedule time for yourself and relationship. I personally don’t have much help but I utilize what I do. My home isn’t always perfect and I’m a mess most of the time. But it’s so rewarding to have their unconditional love. Although they can be turds. 🤷♀️
It seems a lot harder than it actually is!!! I stress big time my whole pregnancy and honestly they both get a lot of attention and there the best of friends of course kaysen wasn’t happy/didn’t understand having a new baby so the first week or two were rough here and there but it wasn’t bad!!! But schedule wise you will get there!! Just remember baby will sleep a lot as a newborn so that helps and he/she will start staying away more and more as they get older and that to me helped a lot we slowly changed and got into a routine and honestly both my kids slept like crap so the fact your oldest is already a good sleeper is awesome
Theres a group that can help probally . its called back to back babies. Its help me alot and taken alot of stress off as well
It will fall into place. Don’t stress over things that haven’t happened yet.. Save your energy lol 😂