Sometimes you know your body better than everyone else. Not every woman will produce high levels of hcg throughout pregnancy some it can take weeks some it can take months don’t trust a blood test don’t trust a urine test trust your heart and when you know it’s times it’s time this doctor was not a gynecologist so he did not give me a quantitative blood test to actually see what my hcg level is at I hope this helps some of you ladies who just feel like giving up and stop testing because of what everyone else thinks or what a doctor tells you trust your body you know your body better than a blood test and a pee test and god will lead you to the right path
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Girl.. stop it, you're not pregnant. Blood test has confirmed that! And your tests aren't positive either. Move on already.
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@ashleyvaughn20133, Can be normal mid cycle for some, can also mean infection etc.
@ashleyvaughn20133, It’s very common. Doesn’t mean your pregnant. Why are you hours later now back to thinking your pregnant again?
@ashleyvaughn20133, by 13 weeks you should have had your 1st ob appointment. When I was 13 weeks I was already on my second.
@ashleyvaughn20133, how far along do you think you are?
@ashleyvaughn20133, it’s easily diagnosed with bloodwork and/or ultrasound.
Omg this sounds exactly what I have July31st I did have a light period and I haven’t had one since and I am overweight I’m goanna ask them about this when I go to the doctor thank you
I once had my period for 6 weeks straight and then I didn’t get it for like 4 months.
I got a positive digital 5 days before my period was even due. If you were pregnant you would have blazing positives by now.
@ashleyvaughn20133, yes! You have to stop. Let it go. You want this baby so badly because you seemed to think it would fix a broken relationship when in reality it would have destroyed it even more. Honestly girl, I would go see a psychiatrist. You need some help and there’s nothing wrong with that.
I’m just goanna let this obsession go I mean it’s stressing me out to the point we’re I’m sick to my stomach I have to stop and just let it go
You’re flip flopping all the time. You didn’t believe the negative blood test or all the negative HPTs you’ve taken. Go grab a digital test and take it.
@ashleyvaughn20133, Go get a Clearblue digital test so you can either see the words pregnant or not Pregnant. With how far along you should be, you don’t even have to do a pee hold.
@ashleyvaughn20133, no we wouldn’t be able to tell by looking at your stomach. Please move on from this, you are not pregnant
You got a negative blood test, why were you not convinced then? The positive on the blue dye was likely an evap. Don’t trust blue dyes, go with pink or digital. You’re not pregnant this go round, I hope you can accept that and move on. All of this symptom analyzing has to be making you crazy by now.
You can’t tell by looking at someone’s stomach. If the blood test was negative, you’re not pregnant. I’m sorry but you’ve got to move on.
@queenmeeks, I had that same thought since she first came around
Could y’all tell if I was by looking at a pic of my stomach because y’all are pregnant and you know what’s it’s like if y’all tell me by looking at my stomach I swear I will let this obsession go and move on
This is giving me caitypillar vibes. Man. You’re not pregnant and I’m sure that’s hard to accept, but you have to.
@ashleyvaughn20133, They would be able to hear a heart beat in the doctor’s office.
I feel like this is all in my head because I would be further along than you and I have not had any morning sickness at all I really hope I don’t act like this in the future when I do get pregnant oml
A. My HCG is in the hundreds of thousands.
B. I’ve had 4 ultrasounds.
C. Positive pregnancy tests in August.
D. Fetal heartbeat heard in office since 8weeks3 days.
E. Extreme morning sickness and HG
F. My fundal height has been on track since 10 weeks when they first checked.
The list goes on....they’d have a heartbeat because you’d be farther along then me.
@beakymcspence, you are 12 weeks what are your symptoms maybe this will help me stop
@ashleyvaughn20133, What does that have to do with anything? OBGYNs aren’t the only people who do prenatal care 🙄 Or do pregnancy diagnostics.
I guarantee you if you walked into urgent care with all of this demanding an Ultrasound not only would they do it and find nothing but they’d likely request a psych consult and your doctor very well may do it also.
@ashleyvaughn20133, Not at your gestation that you’d be. You need to get off google and help yourself get on with life. There’d be no viable pregnancy at this gestation with no HCG.
@ashleyvaughn20133, you are all over the place... do you work or go to school so you have something to keep you mind busy to maybe try and past the fact that a medical doctor and actual medical tests (not just google) have confirmed you are not pregnant?
@ashleyvaughn20133, Yes there is something wrong with your mindset. No one used the words psychotic situation. What will the conspiracy be when the ultrasound shows no baby? You’ve convinced yourself there’s lines on tests that have no lines hun. Your not pregnant and your doctor has covered this.
Omg I don’t need help y’all I’m fine there is nothing wrong with me this is not phycoiotic situation
@mb2424, You have to want help, and it’s doesn’t appear she’s there yet. She will demand an ultrasound and when that’s clear and shows no baby there will be another conspiracy as to why it’s not correct and she’s still pregnant. Sadly it’s a snowball effect and will just keep going. Hysterical pregnancies are very real to those who’ve convinced themselves and so absolutely she believes and feels pregnant. Some women even go on to lactate. Her doctor has gone over fundal height, urine tests, HCG panel and still she’s convinced there’s a baby inside her it’s very sad. I hope she gets help also as this could literally consume her whole life. OP you’d be too far along for a cryptic pregnancy your HCG would be through the roof for a viable pregnancy of that gestation you need to stop.
@beakymcspence, i honestly hope she gets the help she needs, But it seems like she won’t.
@mb2424, She’s just grasping at straws, it’s a way to hold on and not let go. The tests were negative but in her mind the doctor didn’t do it and that’s how she’s still pregnant even though in reality she’s not. It’s borderline hysterical pregnancy type situation now.
@mb2424, she knows they drew her blood but she thinks the doctor didn’t run the tests on it. That’s how I read it.
Yes the HCG blood test was negative and the urine tests were negative but a month ago I did get a positive test the equate test I posted I took a month ago it was not an evap line the result showed up within 3 min that was the strongest positive I have gotten since then I have gotten negatives my discharge has been thick white since then The tips of my nipples are turning white
@beakymcspence, Maybe I’m misunderstanding? I hope she gets the help she needs, you have given great advice to her since the beginning hopefully she takes it.
@mb2424, Nope she said her HCG was negative. So unless she’s changed her story 🤷🏻♀️ Post was made 10-3 saying blood test negative and she’d stressed herself over nothing. Now convinced herself again she’s pregnant.
@beakymcspence, I know but I wasn’t feeling this yesterday or the days before that I mean it honestly scared me I had to stop what I was doing and sit down and I can feel my uterus when I bend over and when I’m laying down sometimes it hurts
@beakymcspence, in one of her responses she said she didn’t think he ran the test, because she didn’t see any paperwork about it?
@ashleyvaughn20133, Your taking one random case off google that’s riddled with spelling errors 🙄 You even said yourself days ago you knew you weren’t pregnant. Your grasping at straws..get help.
@ashleyvaughn20133, the fact that you won’t answer the question tells me all I need to know..... you really need to seek help I wish you luck. I’m shocked you haven’t gone to the er and demand an ultrasound with how much you think you are pregnant? 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@ashleyvaughn20133, at this point, just go demand a ultrasound. 🤷🏻♀️ I wouldn’t ever recommend it to anyone else in this situation but with your mental health, it seems like that is going to be the ONLY way to convince you that you’re not pregnant.
@ashleyvaughn20133, you never seem to answer the question did they draw your blood? You need to seek professional help, not just urgent care you need to see an ob and a psychiatrist .
I’m glad your under drs care, and they can give you the help you need.
@ashleyvaughn20133, Honestly girl you NEED help. Your not feeling fetal movement because if you were you’d be pregnant which your NOT. You need some tough love here...those tests are negative...your HCG blood draw is negative..IF you were pregnant you’d have positive tests and if you were pregnant and feeling fetal movement you’d DEFINITELY have a positive HCG blood serum. You’ve legitimately convinced yourself your pregnant when nothing indicates you are, and frankly you’ve become obsessive. I’m actually concerned for your mental health. You began obsessing thinking this would trap a boyfriend who was leaving you and now can’t let go..no matter how many times it’s proven to you that your not carrying a child. You will be a mom one day but you need to get yourself help. None of those tests in the photos are positive not one and the old blue die is an evap from weeks ago.
I just felt fetal movement!!! I was doing the dishes and I felt a kick at the lower part of my stomach I swear on my life I’m not making this up idc if y’all think I’m crazy this shit just got real there is a freakin baby Inside me and I knew it all along That’s it I’m getting an ultrasound this week I’m going to the doctor and telling them to give me an ultrasound
@ashleyvaughn20133 You aren't stupid. You just want a baby badly. The mind is very strong and can trick the body easily. I really think meditation , yoga, exercise, would be good for you. It would help you to clear your mind and get a hold of yourself. Dont beat yourself up. This is a common issue in women who have suffered a loss or struggle to conceive. It can even be brought on by emotional issues that have nothing to do with pregnancy. Everything will be okay. 💕
@ashleyvaughn20133, so you don’t know if they stuck you with a needle to get blood from you?
@ashleyvaughn20133, I’m just confused on the blood work did they draw blood from you? Do you think they just took your blood and didn’t test it?
The fact that you know this is good . Then get busy doing something else. Something that you enjoy to try relax and distress yourself. Time heals. Take one day at a time. No one is perfect.
@leila0586, i have been having these strong flutters around my belly button area I know it’s gas I drink a lot of soft drinks the doctor said that he did a blood test I don’t think he did because I didn’t get any paper work or anything before I could even tell him anything he would say “your not pregnant” and I think he told me that so I would move on and stop seeing him he seemed irritated with me I don’t think a doctor would do something like that though idk I’m having all the symptoms on that photo the obsession of me convincing myself I’m pregnant has led me to actually mimic the symptoms of being pregnant when I know in my head I’m not pregnant and I’ve stressed myself out to the point were I have missed my period for 3 months because of my stupidity
How far long do you think you are ? Because if you are experiencing fetal movement you are far long possibly 15 weeks the earliest and that’s just feeling flutter which could easily be mistaken as gas. The first test you sent us are all negative. But the one you sent a month ago looks positive to me. Blood test are accurate . However you stated you aren’t sure they did an blood test. So maybe for peace of mind you need to get your medical record which you are allowed to request. You also could have experience a chemical pregnancy as to why you haven’t gotten your period. There could be another issue with your fertility that need to be discussed with your OB. If you don’t like your OB get a second opinion. But don’t knock blood test is very much accurate that’s why it’s done because everyone don’t receive a bfn on a pee stick. I’m not going to knock you and say you’re not pregnant. However you need to get a blood test done and know that you got it done and see the report. And if it says positive congrats . But if it says negative believe it. Even get a ultrasound done . So you can have peace of mind . So you can move on. If you can’t move on. Seek help.
@ashleyvaughn20133 This test looks very strange. The control line. Op I really hope you get some answers and some reassurance. I think you might be experiencing a phantom pregnancy. I feel for you. 💕😊
Blue dye tests always give me lines even when I'm not pregnant. Pink dye (within the timeframe) and blood tests are accurate. If you want to believe you're pregnant even though you're not, that's your business. But please don't drag the guy into it and make him believe you are when you're clearly not. That's my fear with this whole situation. 🤦🏼♀️
@ashleyvaughn20133, but did they draw your blood you made it seem like they didn’t run any blood test...... if you were in fact pregnant your test line would be very dark you would be close to 14 weeks based on the last time you had unprotected sex..... blue dyes give very convincing Evaps. None of the pictures look positive (the first two are dye runs notice the pink along the sides too much urine was used, and the last pic is of an old dried test).
@ashleyvaughn20133, that’s a very very faint line. Could be an evap line. Those test are known for giving evaps. You would have a very very positive test by now on any test you took if you were pregnant.
You are not pregnant. That’s a fact. Please seek help ☹️
@ashleyvaughn20133, so did the draw blood for any tests, these test are negative.
This a negative test though. I dont understand your post.
@spookylyn, I’m not psycho I promise I know my body my stomach is literally growing if only y’all could see
I don’t even think he did a blood test because the way he kept telling me I’m not pregnant I did not get any paperwork from the blood work or anything
Girl.. stop it, you're not pregnant. Blood test has confirmed that! And your tests aren't positive either. Move on already.
The first one looks like a dye run and the last one looks like an Evap. You need to go get a quantitive HCG test done and put it to rest so you can move on. I totally understand that feeling of desperately wanting something so much you can trick yourself into thinking it’s real but you need to also be logical. These tests may not be positive.. your best bet is to take a digital, and get the quantitive blood test, and if it’s negative.. believe it, and move on. It’s hard and I hope you get your baby one day, but you need to get solid answers and be willing to move on if it isn’t what you wanted.
My friend Trish never got positives on a stick test with either of her boys. She always had to have a blood test done.. I’m not saying that’s the same situation here. But I’ll send some baby dust your way. 🙏🏻 it happens when it’s meant to happen just don’t overthink it because you can actually trick your body into thinking you’re pregnant when you’re not. Not to be an ass.
I don’t see anything on these test. They look negative
I don't see anything on these tests. Doctors know what they're doing and a blood test is accurate. I'm really confused...
Is there a different time you had sex or is this still from July?
@ashleyvaughn20133, Honestly girl you NEED help. Your not feeling fetal movement because if you were you’d be pregnant which your NOT. You need some tough love here...those tests are negative...your HCG blood draw is negative..IF you were pregnant you’d have positive tests and if you were pregnant and feeling fetal movement you’d DEFINITELY have a positive HCG blood serum. You’ve legitimately convinced yourself your pregnant when nothing indicates you are, and frankly you’ve become obsessive. I’m actually concerned for your mental health. You began obsessing thinking this would trap a boyfriend who was leaving you and now can’t let go..no matter how many times it’s proven to you that your not carrying a child. You will be a mom one day but you need to get yourself help. None of those tests in the photos are positive not one and the old blue die is an evap from weeks ago.