Iv done the massage her tummy and bicycle movements. She went 2 days on bounce then goes ages without anything so can see it in her little face it kills me z

@kirsty.w.2888, you can’t spoil a baby, there tiny and need cuddles this is a big new world to them they need to feel secure and if that means getting cuddled then do it. I’m a mum of 2 and at times my girls did sleep in with me at night or on me during the day my oldest is now 9 she’s and independent little miss who sleeps in her own room in her own bed, she’s slept in her bed/Moses since she was born give or take some nights when she spent the night lying on me sleeping. Her little sister is 7 months old, still sleeps in her next to me crib in my room although I’m sorting the cot this weekend, some nights she sleeps in my bed, some days she falls asleep on me, I embrace it it’s not going to last forever. White noise, a tshirt belonging to you under her, swaddling her could help, she would get the smell from your tshirt and that could help settle her. For the constipation try a small amount of cool boiled water, try massaging her tummy, moving her legs in a bicycle position. A stretchy wrap is a god send for during the day it allows you to get things done x

@jamieleighx, that’s just it I don’t want her to rely on just sleeping on me.. midwife says you can’t really spoil them but if she gets used to it I’m scared she’ll never sleep on her own. Up until last night she was fine.. I feel useless. She’s been constipated aswell so I know she’s struggling and I feel guilty when I get frustrated but I’m so exhausted and Iv been laid down most of day cus she won’t let me move x

I used to wear a vest top. In the day then wrap it around the mattress of the crib in the evening, it worked pretty well for day time naps. But he's ended up sleeping in with me at night and on me in the day. I've given up trying to get him to sleep alone. It's always worth a try though!

We got the snoozy one but to be honest not 100% sure how it works as Iv not had time to look at it properly x

I really don’t wanna do that cus I’m so paranoid about anything happening.. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I bought a myHummy white noise bear I might try that later x

@lovemyboys8, I have a next to me crib but I can’t fasten it to my bed to take the side off it and that scares me. X

@lovemyboys8, she’s been sleeping in a sleep bag cus she managed to get out of every blanket no matter what we do she’s so fidgety.