I'm starting to realize that ppl that get epidurals complain about giving birth from those who do…

I'm starting to realize that ppl that get epidurals complain about giving birth from those who do natural........ Like I'm seeing around me, and then I say I did natural they ask "why? ", "did it hurt? " , "why didn't you ask for an epidural? "

Me: didn't have the choice thought it was Hicks contraction but was wrong and I was 9.5 cm when I reached the hospital they said five more min an she would of been a home birth and two emt, an two cops had to carry me to the stairs an down to where they are waiting to put me on the bed n off to the er where I got three minor stitches cause of a slight tear from pushin "

But I love hearing ppl complain about which is worse / better, cause at the end if the day if the baby comes into the world safe an healthy is what really matters. Everything else heals on its own. So why have a giant debate about it, I say to by friends that are yet to deliver either way pray the baby comes out strong and healthy which is more important.

* side note: not bashing any moms who did a natural or epidural birth *