RANT: I'm getting induced at 7am and I told my boyfriend I atleast need a week till we go to his parents house to show…
RANT: I'm getting induced at 7am and I told my boyfriend I atleast need a week till we go to his parents house to show his mom the baby (of course well send her pics) . Long story short she has a hard time walking because her legs are so swellen from being diabetic amd she doesn't know how to drive and she's a little coo coo so we always have to go shopping for her. And she lives an hour away from us.. And every time him and his mom are together they bicker back and forth and its always so annoying I wouldn't be able to handle it after just giving birth am I wrong for saying that my boyfriend understands and agrees with me but I feel bad that it would take me a week to get out there.. Dont get me wrong I love his family and they are great but they get on my last nerves.
Lanie Jay·
Are you waiting a week before your family can see the baby? What’s fair is fair.
BakingDaddy ·
There isn't any one in his family that could bring her to your house?
raerae2018·
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Do what you feel is best.. Itd your baby and if your partner has no issue with it then there's no problem and even if he did if you don't feel up to it then you don't feel up to it she will have to wait
Penelope ·
Not wrong at all for saying that. Who knows, you might even feel better before that, but it’s good to give yourself that buffer in case your not feeling well.
Jennyg51397·
@laniejay no my family will be at the hospital but she won't be able to get there.. Not nessarly wait a week but give me a couple days to heal.. And get the baby moved in because all they do is bicker back and fourth the while time we visit and I wouldn't be able to handle it im gunna be tired and sore
Jennyg51397·
@bodybycheetos everyone in his family is in bad health it was a struggle to just get them out to the baby shower but I'm glad they made it
Jennyg51397·
@lpheartsyou I hope she doesn't take it the wrong way but she's gunna have to understand
Penelope Frost·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
My youngest is a month old and most of my family hasn’t met her yet. Both of my husband’s brothers have met her; one even flew home from Arizona just to meet her. My siblings all live within 20 min of my house and only one has tried to come see her.
I had complications after delivery and the only person we took her to see was my dad. My mom passed away a couple of years ago and my dad feels like he’s imposing on family time, so we go to him.
If your SOs family have health issues and can’t get to you, they wait until you are ready to leave your house, it’s what’s best for you and baby, as there are soooooo many illnesses this fall. And a stressed momma is not good for baby.