Do you think it’s fine if your spouse is talking to someone you found out they used to be in love…

Nope. I think it’s kinda disrespectful. My fiancé learned real quick.

@rebelprincesz24, thank you ! The worst part is that i found out for myself and he lied to me they probably never really dated but wanted too I’ve dealt with it in the past but never worked out but it bothers that he lied

Depends what they are talking about.

@jahnayawiley, yeah when my fiancé lies to me I make him regret it he’s learning and hasn’t really been lying anymore

@mhbb3, old times of them spending time together

@rebelprincesz24, honestly the first time it happened he learned his lesson but now he hid it from me and thinks i don’t know he used to be in love with her it bothers me

@jahnayawiley, it would bother me too and he should respect your wishes and not talk to her

@rebelprincesz24, yeah i wish he felt that way but he doesn’t take anything i say serious and when it’s a deal breaker for me he just says I’m giving up I’ve been with him for 7 years and ever since i had the baby i honestly feel i don’t love him

But i feel that way cuz some stuff he did to loose my trust but stayed cuz we have a 4 month old daughter

@jahnayawiley No. I would be suspicious. Especially since he tried to hide it. People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.

Exactly smh

@jahnayawiley, yeah my fiancé done something over the summer that completely broke my trust and I told him I wasn’t happy and that I was thinking about leaving him and the day I done that he cried. The only way to tell if you truly love someone is taking a break from them, we’ve done it before and just realized we didn’t like being away from each other.

That’s the thing it’s like he acts like he’s tired of me but when i try to leave or take a break he doesn’t want too like he refuses too he won’t let me go even if it is a break

No lol i say that's up to the couple but that's something i wouldn't feel comfortable with

Not fine at all I'd be pissed 😑would he be fine if it were you and not him?

Absolutely not.