Why is it when women have babies their whole lives change? But when men have kids their lives barely…
Why is it when women have babies their whole lives change? But when men have kids their lives barely change.
I've been begging for a date night.. cant find the time is the excuse.. but he can go to a high school football game.. while I'm at home with my 2 year old who could never stay awake through one of those games (if she gets over tired she has breath holding spells and it's not worth it) and with his youngest brother who is in trouble for getting ISS at school and isnt allowed to go. I'm stuck here as the mom.. but hes just a dad.. he gets to do the same crap he would be doing if these kids never existed. But my life would be 110% different. I dont regret them. I'll never regret them. But dang I wish he could feel what I felt sometimes. Being a stay at home mom is amazing... but the isolation and loneliness can be so dark..
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
I know. I want to be a dad lol. Im basically both tho so 🙃🙃
Lisa·
I know the feeling..... My husband goes off on his own schedule, mostly for work, but I work too.... I had to have a lot of talks with him about "weekend's belong to us"..... And a few compromises..... He's is still learning, but is at least asking my permission to do certain things now.... (He makes his own work schedule)
Kelley87·
And this is why I chose to get a "job job." Men don't understand how it is to be in the house all day long with our babies... It's draining! Not that my life is so much better lol bc I'm still expected to do all the cooking, cleaning and still take care of the kids 85% of the time! Up until August, they went to work with me so I did 11 hr shifts with 3 kids ages 3 and 1😨😨😨.That was awful lol! But I do have more of a piece of mind now that the kids go to daycare and finally getting to go to work without them. And instead of nagging him for a date night, if he's too busy I'll go have a drink with the girls.. Trust me after one night of that, he's always available for a date night lmao!