I went from extremely happy to really mad/sad. My husband went with his brother and gf to a funeral…

I went from extremely happy to really mad/sad. My husband went with his brother and gf to a funeral today. I didn't go because our son has been sick and didn't want to spread it to everyone. We cleaned up a bit in the morning and by the time my husband came back our son pulled out a lot of his toys and he brought his brother and gf inside. I was mortified because I looked a mess and our living room looked a mess and I wasn't warned. I told him after they left he should have warned me and I would have looked nicer and cleaned up a bit. He said he didn't know they were coming up and his dad(who lives with us) had to say "oh well maybe you should treat everyday like someones coming over." Meaning I should make sure its clean all the time. My husband starts putting our sons toys away and is grumpy about it because its not cleaned up. Then we get to talking about dinner I mentioned taco bell to him and he asked if he could go anywhere closer. I said yeah I guess so and then his dad had to chime in again saying "no she NEEDS a calzone." In a snobby tone because on facebook yesterday I asked if pizza hut still has calzones. So I told him no I don't need one. I was just asking if pizza hut still had them that's all. And he got all irritated saying I got all snotty with him and not the other people that commented on my post yesterday. Why that had to be brought up I don't know. Him and my husband ended up going to get taco bell and I guess during the ride my husband was complaining about how I don't keep things clean and his dad was trying to play the victim and say hes so hurt because I put him on blast on facebook for his comment. Which I didn't. Like I said I asked if pizza hut still had calzones. He commented saying half of the places in our city have them and a different pizza place has some. So I told him I know and I mentioned a place near by having some its just pizza hut used to have some good ones. Apparently that's putting him on blast? Everyone else actually gave an answer and said no not anymore etc. One person mentioned a great place that has them that we should try out and I didn't end up responding. Sorry for the long post I'm just upset. I'm upset my husband instead of talking to me had to talk bad about me to his dad and I'm upset that his dad always has to be rude and then play the victim. While they were gone I cleaned up the rest of the living room and what little bit of the kitchen and dining room that needed to be done. Then went into my room to cry.