So my bf side of the fam planned a trip to D. C to see his dad for his bday, (his dad lives in NJ…

So my bf side of the fam planned a trip to D. C to see his dad for his bday, (his dad lives in NJ and isn't down much) they never told us til two days before.. Ofcourse we had work and missed it.. But if we would have knows weeks ago we could have made arrangements.. This isn't the first time we were "forgotten" getting pretty tired of being the optional family members...and they wonder why Ji is so apprehensive around em they never come around and I refuse to force her interact if she doesn't want.. OK Rant over 😒