Sorry just need to vent...
My brother is really very hurtful to me. Though nothing he says is about or really to me. Things he says about our mother and just his general attitude make me not want him in my life. It's really hard because I still love him but he knows that I disagree with him about our mother and he still says things in front of me anyway.

I unfriended him on Facebook because a lot of the stuff he posts is just about him being angry at something (and he curses a TON), but sometimes it can be offensive and hurtful to me. I'm having a baby in a month or less so I decided I don't need that extra stress in my life. But I wonder if I did the wrong thing. I've tried talking to him and asking him not to say things about our mother but his attitude about it is "bull s, I'll say what I want"

He acts like he doesn't care about me but then gets upset when I also act like he doesn't care about me. He's told me I need to stop acting like he doesn't care but that's hard when I don't think he does.

I originally wanted him to come and be here when I have my first baby, but recently he's said some things about my parents and my mother that have changed my mind. I don't want him around at all anymore. That makes me feel like a bad person but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. There's not really anything I can do.