Hi ladies,

I’m in a bit of a dilemma and I’m hoping you can help me out.

My boyfriend and I haven’t seen a lot of each other this year due to his working hours and me trying to find a job.

Every time we have seen each other we’ve been trying for a baby. I’ll be 7 weeks pregnant on this Wednesday coming and I am yet tell him I’m pregnant due to the fact I haven’t been seeing a lot of him due to his working hours and our living conditions.

My boyfriend lives in a one bedroom unit within a unit complex and he only has a small bedroom with a double bed, a small lounge room with a 3 seater lounge, a small tv cabinet and a small tv + a small side table at one end of the lounge. The unit also has a small bathroom and small kitchen. And a very small balcony just big enough for 2 people to fit on. My boyfriend pays rent for the unit.

On the other hand, I live with my parents in a two story, 4 bedroom house. My parents don’t know I’m pregnant 🤰yet either and I’m in a bit of a sticky situation because I’m only 19 years of age and if my parents find out I’m pregnant they might kick me out of Home or take me take me to get an abortion.

My parents are quite strict and, would disapprove of me getting pregnant at only 19 years of age.

If my parents kick me out of home that’d mean I’d have to move in with my boyfriend into his unit. The Unit manager is quite strict in regards to the amount of people in a unit each.

For example if their are 2 people in a one bedroom unit that is fine since the bedroom has a double bed. However, if their are more then 2 people living in the unit he’ll give us notice to move out and find a new place with in a certain time length

Can you ladies help me out with advice on what to do and how to approach this chaotic situation.

Thanks so much