Hi ladies,
I’m in a bit of a dilemma and I’m hoping you can help me out.
My boyfriend and I haven’t seen a lot of each other this year due to his working hours and me trying to find a job.
Every time we have seen each other we’ve been trying for a baby. I’ll be 7 weeks pregnant on this Wednesday coming and I am yet tell him I’m pregnant due to the fact I haven’t been seeing a lot of him due to his working hours and our living conditions.
My boyfriend lives in a one bedroom unit within a unit complex and he only has a small bedroom with a double bed, a small lounge room with a 3 seater lounge, a small tv cabinet and a small tv + a small side table at one end of the lounge. The unit also has a small bathroom and small kitchen. And a very small balcony just big enough for 2 people to fit on. My boyfriend pays rent for the unit.
On the other hand, I live with my parents in a two story, 4 bedroom house. My parents don’t know I’m pregnant 🤰yet either and I’m in a bit of a sticky situation because I’m only 19 years of age and if my parents find out I’m pregnant they might kick me out of Home or take me take me to get an abortion.
My parents are quite strict and, would disapprove of me getting pregnant at only 19 years of age.
If my parents kick me out of home that’d mean I’d have to move in with my boyfriend into his unit. The Unit manager is quite strict in regards to the amount of people in a unit each.
For example if their are 2 people in a one bedroom unit that is fine since the bedroom has a double bed. However, if their are more then 2 people living in the unit he’ll give us notice to move out and find a new place with in a certain time length
Can you ladies help me out with advice on what to do and how to approach this chaotic situation.
Thanks so much
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Start saving for a bigger unit hun u guys can do it!:)
@caitfranmcca your welcome i know another girl hiding her pregnancy shes 31 its her 2nd kid her oldest is 11 but her parents dont like her on again off again bf and i cant blame them but she is almost in her second trimester already so its a matter of time for them to catch on shes due in March sometime
@boymamachronicles, I have been pregnant 4 times previously but, ended up miscarrying. Not all with the same guy
I think where you need to start is by telling your boyfriend your pregnant and make a game plan with him... He is the father and sounds like he would be excited to know this information... Then its one day at a time from there... Eventually yiur parents will catch on to the possibility of you being pregnant but the first person who should know is the father
Time to find a job, and talk to your boyfriend about finding a place together.
@beakymcspence, well we never really discussed a plan. We just want to have kids. I’m not working but, currently working and my boyfriend has 2 jobs (one day & one night) and it’s hard to see him due to those hours too. I do stay with him sometimes though
Im sorry love that your stuck in such a sticky spot so to speak. When you guys began trying for a baby what was your plan for when that happened?
If your both working it may be beneficial to begin looking for a bigger rental that can accommodate you both and the baby.
I honestly think you need to tell your partner and think about moving in together in a bigger place to fit both of your needs with more room and wait a bit till your settled to tell your parents I wouldn't stress and don't let them get to you that much as its your decision to become a parent and when not there's , good luck tho hope it all goes to plan x