@withlovedkj, I do feed him at times but he is 2.5 years old and he eats on his own very well. I do not totally disregard my son or ever.

Hey, I think I would feed him sometimes but not all the time and encourage him to be independent. You don’t have to feed him until he’s finish but just a little.He doesn’t understand that his younger sibling is incapable of feeding self. He just sees that you aren’t feeding him but feeding his sibling. I don’t think it’s wise to totally disregard how he may be feeling.

Or you could ask him what he would like to watch or if he would like to help you get a diaper or a outfit for his sister. Just so he feels he’s a part of helping you and still gets time with you too.

Have you tried to do one on one with him? Like maybe put her down for a nap. And just spend sometime with him. My little girl gets jealous when my 9 month old niece comes around. I usually have my niece on my lap. And my little girl will sit in front of me and loves when I have her interacting with playtime with my niece and I.