When you are trying to pack a bag for your child to go to there fathers and you hesitate on stuff…

When you are trying to pack a bag for your child to go to there fathers and you hesitate on stuff because you don’t want it to get ruined but you don’t want your child looking like a complete sh!t bum :/ ugh I use to be able to send my sons best clothes and now he ruins like everything I send. I have to buy cheap play clothes and or second hand clothes for him to wear there but still it’s like really?! Last weekend there was idk what all over the top of his shorts it was nasty i’m like come on! 🙄😤 and it’s always the clothes from Friday too which clearly he must leave them on him into Saturday smh.