Your wife is LITERALLY telling you shes not happy and she see no hope in this marriage 2 hours again…

That’s very inconsiderate to not even try to talk about things, I would be mad.

I’m sorry your going thru this stay strong 💕💕💕

It may not be that he doesn’t care . Men think differently than woman . I’ve learned to try different approaches with my husband to get him to communicate. Here are a few things that you can try:

1. Try to find the right time to talk (right after work or stressful day may not be good to bring something up....after sex is a good time Lol)

2. Don’t bring up multiple issues at once . They get confused . Try to space out the complaints.

3. Find something to compliment him about so it doesn’t feel like you’re just nagging

4. Celebrate/thank him when he does does something you like even if it’s one time to encourage that behavior

5. Use the sandwich method: say something nice , speak your complaint, then speak something else nice about him. Express his issue makes you feel then ask if he understands .

6. When you bring up issue , offer solution and ask what he thinks about your solution or if he has ideas to address it.

I know this prob sounds like too much work but it has worked for me. I had to learn tonite my tongue sometimes and choose my battles. Everything is not worth argument. Also , trying once may not work right away ....it takes time. Hope it helps and hope you have a better evening .

@rwalters1981, @mimixtmn, @expectinggreatness, @garay88, thank you all but at this point I’m exhausted I’m tired of trying it isn’t like this is the first time we’ve had an issue.im always the one to just shut up and leave it alone.. but I deserve better... I have tried multiple different approaches and I know my husband I know when he is disinterested and he definitely is so I’m at the end of the road and I want out

I understand the frustration and knowing when your husband is unwilling to talk about issues. I also know that sometimes the bigger the problem, the more difficult it is to discuss; especially if you don’t know the best way to fix it.

Your husband may want to fix things, but not know how to make the changes that he needs to make. He may also be concerned that if he makes the changes you may still be unhappy. There’s also the chance that he could feel you’re bluffing and that no matter how unhappy you are you would never leave.

I don’t advocate just walking away from or giving up on marriage. However, if you are this unhappy and it’s starting to affect your health (mental or physical), I would suggest spending a couple of nights with your parents or at a hotel. Then the two of you can have sometime apart to think, he can see that you are not making an idle threat(if you’re serious about leaving), and you will be able to tell if you want to be a single mom. Also, please remember that the last 10 weeks of pregnancy can really mess with a woman both mentally and emotionally; your husband may be trying to determine what is the pregnancy speaking and what is genuine frustration with the marriage. My husband and I had many conversations about this, and I’m the one in our relationship that shuts down when overwhelmed or I can’t find the words I want to use.