Mamas with 2 under 2 is it really hard at first? Tomorrow is my 36 week appointment and I’m not sure…

My babies are 12 months and 2 days apart. You’ve just got to establish a routine. My first is soooo spoiled! So I’m trying to break her of it while also taking care of my LO. While he naps I play with her and while they’re both napping I clean. Or if he wakes up I baby wear. Makes things a little tougher but it’s better exercise than just doing cleaning by itself. I was overwhelmed at first but it’s getting easier everyday. But I can’t stress to you enough how important a schedule is!!!!

@thepaige16, thank you I’m just scared my toddler will feel left out or like she’s not getting enough attention, she’ll be a year and a half next month.

Routine is key. Yes it's hard but don't let everyone scare you. My two are 12 months apart and once you find your own rhythm with each kid it gets easier. I will have 3 under 3 next month but I don't think it can be any worse than 2 under 2

@momofboys3, okay thank you makes me feel better hopefully I get the hang of it pretty quickly

Yes it’s hard. It’s still a challenge 5 months in.

Those beginning days are the worst though, survival mode for sure. Just try to stay positive and tell yourself all of this will eventually pass... I’m still in the thick of it rn trying to stay positive. Not impossible just hard!

@heidi3581, thank you, hoping I do better than I expect to do I’m just nervous is all but I’m sure all moms in this case is til it comes to it.