I can't even begin to explain how much it hurts my heart that my son is never treated as an equal to my daughter. They both have different dads, and my "family" doesnt want shit to do with my son, because of the situation with his dad. He loves attention, and all he wants is to be talked to, no one ever gives him the time of day. Im sitting here crying because my son trys to get their attention and my dad just acts like he doesnt even exist and i know hes so young he doesnt understand but his little face lights up with a smile any time he sees someone walk by thinking they'll acknowledge him and when they ignore him he drops his smile and looks at me like hes asking me why he isnt good enough. I can't even begin to explain how much my heart hurts. I love both of my children equally and i never ever want either of them to think otherwise.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My sons dad messaged me and wants to talk to my son.. He doesnt know him. My kid knows of him but doesnt know him. Hes 10 and hasnt seen him since he was 4 and barely the years before that. Im not sure how to respond or just ignore it.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Rant: My dad wants to give LO water!
My dad keeps telling me to ask my sons doctor when i can give him water cause its getting hot. My son is 2 months! Uh no dad! I tell him he cant until after 1 year old (i think) but he still wants me to ask and give him some. Now i have to keep an eye on my dad to make sure he doesnt give him any. ??
My son's behavior is driving my husband/his dad and I more towards separating I think...my husband comes home from work and cant even deal with being around him at all and he literally doesnt even want to be home so he goes to bed super early to escape...he is, I swear to Gid, the worst behaved child in the entire world - at least that I've ever seen. I really have no idea what to do. The mental health help world for children (and heck, even adults ) here in FL is slim to none and I can't seem t...