How can someone take care of one child, but when they know they have another on the way they don’t…

You not the only one

Exactly

Because guys are dicks. My son's dad has three other kids with two different women and is only concerned about his son and daughter with his ex wife. Leaves our son and his other daughter out like they don't matter.

@mrshammond17, the guy who is the dad to the child I’m pregnant with now has completely stopped talking to me.

He has a 9 month old with another girl. And a boy due any day with someone else. And now me. He takes great care of his daughter. I don’t know if he talks to the other girl or not but his family knows about his son. He has yet to tell anyone about this baby I’m carrying. He says bc it makes him the 3rd one in less than a year, which it isn’t my fault. I was on birth control an stuff but it just didn’t work that time so it’s not like I was trying to get pregnant.

It sucks going through pregnancy again all alone.

My daughters dad left when I was 20wks because he didn’t want a girl.

@brittanystewart304 oh no girl I am so sorry. I went through my whole Pregnancy alone, only time my baby daddy contacted me was when he wanted sex. I kept him in the loop about our son. Called him the day they said I was gonna have him, and he showed up the next day. His family didn't know he was having a son till the day he was born. It's just sad how men get all these girls Pregnant and stick by certain ones or just run in general.

@mrshammond17, I kept my daughters dad updated on everything until he moved to another state and completely stopped talking to me. None of his family don’t ever see or ask about her either. && with the one I’m currently pregnant with, I haven’t even announced my pregnancy other than here and a select handful of family members. I also don’t let the dad know anything. Last time I did he read my message and didn’t say anything so I just keep to myself.

@brittanystewart304 I'm sorry you've had to go through this once before and now. My husband has a 9 yr old he doesn't get to see and it kills him he can't even have any contact with her because he went to prison shortly after she was born. And then he had another daughter when he got out that died a few days after birth, and I see the toll it took on him two years after her passing. He connects with my son like no other. It's amazing. But I'm always here if you ever need an ear to listen, or any type of advice. You can't let stuff build up, it isn't any good for you honey

@mrshammond17, thank you!

I try not to let anything build up but it’s hard when I have literally no one.

My “friends” only come around when they want or need something. Don’t even bother about my pregnancy. && my parents don’t talk about it or anything because their not happy about it at all.

@brittanystewart304 you can always msg me, if you have snap, you can add me.

@mrshammond17, I appreciate it.

I do have snap, brittanyyyy995

@brittanystewart304 @mrshammond17 I can relate to you woman, my kids father has 2 other baby momma's one of them is his wife. He has one kid with the ex and 2 kids with the wife and I have 2 kids going on 3 with him... We don't communicate he only hits me up when he wants to Fuck or when he breaks up with his wife (they're always on and off) his family doesn't ask about any of my kids at all only because he had them with me... But yet they're there for his other 3. And they don't know about the one I'm carrying in my stomach yet. He keeps it quiet because he knows his family is going to get upset.🤦🏻‍♀️but yet he doesn't bother coming around nor ask about how his kids are doing or anything about this pregnancy. This is my first time going through a pregnancy alone and let me tell you I think in my view it's better for me and my kids this way stress-free 🖤 don't worry momma you got this hope all goes good for you with a happy and healthy pregnancy♥️