My sister just lost her son at 3 months…I can’t imagine what she’s going through with the way I’m feeling as an aunt, no wonder she’s going crazy with emotions. I want her to be happy for me but I can’t even talk to her about babies and pregnancy cause I don’t wanna be a constant reminder…me and my mum have taken over looking after my sisters 6year old son so my sister can have time and space. I do the most looking after since my mum works all the time but I feel like everything is getting to me. Getting calls at random times of the night from police cause of my drunk sister, worrying about her, being cussed by her, not working so no money to buy my baby the things she’ll need because I’m looking after my nephew at all times, dealing with social services, being stuck in between a bad relationship between my mum and sister I just don’t know what to do anymore. I seem to just cry at random times and I don’t know why.
I wanted to have stopped smoking by now but it’s the only thing keeping me sane and level headed.
I feel so bad for keeping my little one under stress, but when I feel her moving inside of me she gives me hope for happiness when she comes. I Can’t wait to meet my little princess!
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@jojo96, I agree with the system it’s awful and they are blind! X
@jojo96, oh dear God! I can’t even imagin what you going thru..
Really hope it all will pass like nightmare 😞🙏🙏🙏
@bluebluesky, I wish it was possible but it’s not possible to get through to her mind my mum tried to get her some psychiatric help but it all went so wrong to the point where she hates my mum for it and when she was assessed they said she’s in her right state of mind which is defo not true so the system isn’t helping anybody either. I agree what she’s doing to my nephew isn’t good for him at all but what is there to be done when even the system is failing us…
Me too 🙏🏾
I really feel sorry for your situation..
But you have to somehow get to her mind, catch her not drunk push her to wall show around what the heck she is doing! She has a living and breathing child growing without mother!!! And she is ruining everyones life doing this.. i would probably would be punching her face if that would be my sister and not for what she does to herself but for little boy who might stay traumatized for life seeing stuff like that..🤦♀️🤷♀️😞
And you stop smoking neither not for non pregnant oor especially pregnant its not good, you may have so many bad things happening to your child,..
Prays to God that all of this will sort out 🙏🙏
@jojo96 oh my god really 😢😢
Sometimes you can't help people unless they want help. I really hope she'll get some sort of help....tall to someone.
Hang in there hun. Stay strong xx
@natalie2255, yeah it must be the worst thing and she previously lost a daughter who was days old aswell so I’m just trying to be supportive. The alcohol is defo not the way to go at all cause it’s making her make stupid decisions that are putting her in danger but she won’t go therapy either, it’s like nobody can get through to her and I don’t know what kind of support to even get her since she’s refusing to get it herself ☹️
Trying to not stress too much hopefully we get through all this soon, thank you 🙏🏾
We'll never know what your sister doing through. Poor thing. It's the hardest thing loosing a child. Drinking isn't the best answer but maybe that's the only thing that's keeping her going. Numb the pain ...I suppose.
Your doing amazingly with looking after your nephew, I can imagine it's difficult for you aswell. Saying that? At the same time you need to enjoy your pregnancy hun. Try not to stress yourself to much. Your priority is your baby now xxx
I am so sorry for your sisters loss and the struggles you are all going through as a family. I don’t have much to say but I’d like you to know that you are always welcome to message me for a chat. You sound like a lovely person stay strong hun xxxxx
@vixster, I’m going to do that’s and suggest it to her thank you! I highly doubt she’ll go get support but atleast she’ll know it’s there when she’s ready, I can’t imagine how hard it was but it’s good you kept your other kids in mind before allowing yourself to go through a dark path, and yepp were working on getting therapy for my nephew atm and I’m making sure I stay away cause of my pregnancy too.
Thank you 🙏🏾❣