So I put in that I do not want anyone to know that I am in labor or delivery and set the paperwork…
So I put in that I do not want anyone to know that I am in labor or delivery and set the paperwork and everything and simple as that. I wrote down the names of who is allowed up in the room, which is my mom and my husband, and that’s it. Obviously my dad will know because he will have our son during this but my husband is upset that none of his family will know...I mean I understand completely but the person he wants to tell will try and be there (his mom) and she won’t be able too be and will just caused problems since I have it set on who can and cannot even see me! I literally said I am waiting until I change rooms and get settled and everyone will have to call before visiting...period...husband is still upset I don’t know what to do to compromise with him when his alcoholic mother is going to not listen!
Jordan Rachelle·
I'm doing something very similar.. you have to do what makes you comfortable and the easiest way to enjoy that moment!!
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@paigerue2013 i didn't want anyone else in the room besides my hubby and I made that clear to everyone! I didn't give a damn if my hubby got ass hurt that his family couldn't be there, I didn't care if his family or my family got ass hurt, you don't need all those people in that room and all that drama and noise, you don't need all that extra unnessassary b.s if you don't want to deal with it, you shouldn't have to! plus pushing a baby out, you don't need a thousand people looking at you hoohaa. It's your baby, your decision, your the one who your baby is coming out of, your the one who has carried your baby in your body for months! In my belief it's your decision, give a damn if your hubby gets bootie tickled ❤️ seriously mama 😘
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
@uglymombeautifulboy0910, thank you (: and thank you for understanding and not judging me!! Most think it’s a selfish decisions but I believe at that point in time I am allowed to be selfish
Miss Toni·
@paigerue2013 you're not selfish im sick and tired of people always trying say you wrong for ur decisions with ur baby. Shit i wouldn't want my mom there is shes alcoholic and i learned that the hard way when i was a kid. But wish you the best you and your husband only ppl should be allowed in the room. Take it easy and dont stress
Stephanie·
With this pregnancy I don't want anyone other than my husband at the hospital....ppl can visit once we are home and settled. Your baby, your experience, your choice!
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@paigerue2013 yes i agree😊 but it's not being selfish of you mama it's being selfish of them for not understanding you🙄 some people won't understand but oh well right? It's not their choice, it's yours❣️It's your childs first time in this world out of your belly, your babys first breath of oxygen, its the first time you guys get to actually meet your baby, these times should be cherished by the mother and father ❤️ you guys created that amazing beautiful life😍 😘
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@paigerue2013 it's the big moments that matter in life❤️ you and your husband should be the first faces your baby opens his or her beautiful eyes to😍😊❣️ well besides the doctor and nurses lol but you get what I mean😘😋
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
@uglymombeautifulboy0910, beautifully said 😍 thank you!! I can’t wait to experience it again! I know I’m freaked out over labor...even though I been through it before...every time is different! Lol getting so close to holding my baby boy in my arms and I am getting impatient lol
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@paigerue2013 your welcome mama😘💕 I can't wait to find out if im pregnant this month! 😁🤞I was getting very impatient wanting to meet my son when I was pregnant with him lol and he decided to come early but due to infection unfortunately, I would like to experience a longer healthier pregnancy this time, I was healthy with my son until I got the infection but my OB didn't detect it in time so it was too late 😪 but I'm blessed and happy my son is happy, healthy and thriving ❣️😍😁❤️ I pray you have the best labor day mama 😍😘😘😘
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
@uglymombeautifulboy0910, I had my first at 35 weeks because of preeclampsia so I completely understand! I’m 35 weeks as of yesterday and was so happy to make it a whole day past that 😂 praying that you get blessed with another one and thank you I appreciate it (: