Anyone else considered the 'ex girlfriend' at their partners work? He's left to start a new job…

Is it he’s ex girlfriend hun? The “come visit soon” means they haven’t planned to meet up out of work ect, however I’d be annoyed at that as it is too friendly in my eyes and possibly used flirt at work. I’d just trust your gut on these things hun it wasn’t so long ago he didn’t come home from a night out. Hormones or not doesn’t mean your crazy! Xx

@erincharliebubba, everyone at work looks at me as the ex girlfriend and he says no one needs to know my business even though he used to slate me down to all of them lying about me etc! That's what I though possibly to friendly and flirting at work xx

@olivia_monique, what ? So he’s told his work that your the ex girlfriend because he don’t want them knowing his business? If so that rings alarm bells hun seriously bang out of order!xx

I don’t want to tie every man with the same brush but men who keep you a secret or on the low are hiding something and trust your gut hun not the best time to be hearing this but seems somethings up !xx

@erincharliebubba, he's had history with two girls that used to work with him before we wasn't together we was on a break but he also disrespected me and didn't tell me and also tried sleeping with me in the process I don't trust him whatsoever and it is seriously messing with my head as I wouldn't know how to live without him xx

A man denying your together should ring massive alarm bells. I don't know your history but that alone is bad news...

@olivia_monique, hun honestly I completely understand the “wouldn’t know how to live without him” but you deserve respect your the mother of his children and he’s taking the piss out of you! You have your beautiful girl and your baby on the way they will be your strength , you don’t have to cut him out your life completely, I’d show him what he has to loose and say you don’t want to be with him and make him work very hard for him to realise what a fool he’s being , sometimes men don’t see what they lost before it’s too late you deserve respect xx

@erincharliebubba, it's just so hard when I'm due in just over 4 weeks I know he treats me like a complete idiot yet I'm the one apologising after an argument when it's him that's done wrong he'd rather go out with friends than spend anytime with us or even if he's in the house he's on his phone I think I am just so used to the routine I accept the 'mug' title 😢xx

@olivia_monique, I know hun you let things slide and then when they do give you some attention your like “I love you babe” it’s up to you hun you can tell him how you feel now or you can let it continue until baby’s born but I can guarantee you if you already have the one baby he won’t change when the next is here xx

@vixster, I understand exactly what your saying I got back with him in December after that last girl just wanted it to be a fling(just sex) and stupid me thought we could be some happy family and I got pregnant straight away xx

@erincharliebubba, exactly he says sorry and it's perfect for a week and then back to the same old ways as usual I don't trust him and I know it will never get better it just hurts xx

@olivia_monique 💖 so sorry, speak to your doctor about other options, hope you come to the best decision for you and your children.

@olivia_monique, there’s this quote saying “only love can kill and keep you alive to feel it” I found it so real!

It does hurt hun all us women want is that loyal loving family but it’s never that easy. Have you spoken to him about it xx

I’m going through the exact same thing atm!! Only thing is my first I miscarried but I get the ex girlfriends and the flirting at work and the lying I’ve had it all and worse and the best part is we ended and I took him back again 😔 I get it’s hard but you have to think about your babies and put them first and tell him you need space to think about things xx

@erincharliebubba, I've just told him I can't deal with the stress and if it's meant to be it will be im just sick of wasting time on someone who isn't even the person I fell in love with anymore xx

@kronaghmc99, I've lost count how many times he's done wrong and I've took him back! Seriously I'm doing it for the kids but they're gonna grow up thinking it's right to lie to others and make them feel low it's not fair xxx

@olivia_monique, Put yourself and your babies first hun you will be a lot happier in the long run it’s hard we all go through shit but there’s also people out there including myself who had to take that step for the best for the kids xxx