Sorry so long but need to rant.....Not sure how I’m feeling tonight. My husband announced that when our son was a baby he used to take naps in our bed with him when I wasn’t home. I know that sounds normal but I am very against the babies sleeping in our bed with us when they are only a few months old.. anxiety reasons. I have horrible anxiety about something happening that could be super preventable. This means falling down stairs and other random things... anyways, I told him I was pissed that he did that when I was so adamantly against it and he knew it. He didn’t care. Now I wonder what else has he done behind my back that I don’t know about. I thought we were on the same page on everything and now I know he does shit behind my back that I don’t agree with or like. I’ve already been questioning so much about us and this doesn’t help at all! I really don’t want to go back to work in a month and leave the kids home with him now cause I will be freaking out about what’s going on. I should also mention that he spends more time on his phone than watching the kids.